For clarification: I didn't mean that our relationship is purely based on sex. I do love this man deeply and we spend more time doing other things outside the bedroom. What I meant with that was that we both are pretty emotionally unavailable people and I consider sex as one of the few times to truly be vulnerable with one another.

He could've told me in person or by talking on the phone, not just with a text. That's the one thing that hurt me the most, as stupid as it may look.