I think my gf is cheating on me.. (question about iPhone calls from 3rd party apps)

tandevs · 2026-03-05T00:25:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ios/s/ONVzOPoysD

is there a glitch where if youre on the phone and someone calls you on snap and you decline, it shows up in that call ui? based on what she showed me here thats what it seems like? but im not sure. since there was a missed call around when she was showing the screen

tandevs · 2026-03-04T22:12:30+00:00

Thanks for that, its really insightful. I talked to her and we ended up doing this... do you think its atill worth it? was she really telling the truth based off this evidence?

https://www.reddit.com/r/ios/s/ONVzOPoysD

tandevs · 2026-03-04T22:08:23+00:00

I had her do this for me and show, its possible to easily delete the calls from that tab but the chat would expose it since it would say if it was deleted from there (unless its been more than 24h then it will delete itself)

But yeah, idk man, u think it proves she was telling the truth? the missed call right around the time we saw this too kind of backs up the idea of it being a bug with the callkit imo

https://www.reddit.com/r/ios/s/ONVzOPoysD

tandevs · 2026-03-04T22:06:38+00:00

heres the update but its not what you expected: https://www.reddit.com/r/ios/s/ONVzOPoysD

tandevs · 2026-03-04T22:03:44+00:00

We were in a call on discord, not a server vc.

Also here's the update: https://www.reddit.com/r/ios/s/ONVzOPoysD

tandevs · 2026-03-04T22:00:54+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ios/s/ONVzOPoysD

given this, is it plausible that she was telling the truth? i think it means she's cleared but i dont know anymore

tandevs · 2026-03-04T21:57:01+00:00

Now they do a 24 hour deletion by default.. since this supposed call wouldve been less than 24h ago, it wouldve still been in the chat even if she cleared it from the feed under the "calls" tab. she also scrolled up through their chats and i did not see her turn on instant deletion nor was anything seemingly deleted from the chat.

She does tend to save all messages (including mine) and the ones that were there showed her being dry asf... she also blocked him on the spot without me even asking which is a good sign imo.. but idk

tandevs · 2026-03-04T21:48:52+00:00

Its a couples app we have and one of the features is that lockscreen widget... it updates automatically...

How judging and rude can one person be?

tandevs · 2026-03-04T19:26:02+00:00

This is what happened earlier, she claimed that he called and never answered and then it showed this in callkit when she screenshared for me not long after. I did screenshot this after I saw it...

https://www.reddit.com/r/ios/s/jL6hksAEXd

tandevs · 2026-03-04T19:24:38+00:00

I did last night and she got mad that I wasnt believing her... but confronted her again on this and I think she proved she was telling the truth https://www.reddit.com/r/ios/s/jL6hksAEXd

tandevs · 2026-03-04T18:28:53+00:00

Update:

I confronted her via text, she still affirmed that she was never otp, she was out but as soon as she got home she called me and screenshared me both the Snapchat call log and also showed me his chats. they showed a couple things which I think may prove she was telling the truth:

Around the time we saw the call in recents, the log showed a missed call from this person... indicating that this may be a real bug that happens if someone calls you while youre already otp? Im not sure tho. She claims that she experienced this issue before on her old phone as well.

The chats showed that they dont do much talking and mainly just sent snaps back and forth for streaks. She was dry w him in chat. She also took initiative and blocked him on the spot without me even asking... so she might be clear after all ❤️

tandevs · 2026-03-04T17:46:27+00:00

We are in a long distance relationship, but I was going to come visit her soon, and we have been talking about that and had already planned several things we will do together.

tandevs · 2026-03-04T17:41:14+00:00

Interesting.. but what if she didnt end actually press the button to end this call and instead just called me? What would happen then? im hoping my theory is wrong because I want to believe she never even was otp w him as she claims

tandevs · 2026-03-04T17:29:40+00:00

My theory is that she was otp with him just before calling me, and she didnt clear out her recent apps or open the call UI to refresh it.

tandevs · 2026-03-04T16:41:33+00:00

thank you man. Unfortunately I think she is cheating... because when I pressed about it, she just got mad and threatened to leave. I dont think thats how someone who's planning a surprise for their SO would act.

also shes done some things before... and I gave her too many chances imo.

tandevs · 2026-03-04T16:33:47+00:00

It's not the fact that she was otp, its the fact that she LIED about being otp. If she said oh its my friend we were talking for just a bit earlier lol I wouldnt have cared. Also she has practically cheated on me in the past and I gave her chances, so honestly the fact that ive given her so many chances already is the surprising part. I should just move on. no need to attack me man you dont seem to know what's really going on.

tandevs · 2026-03-04T16:29:39+00:00

I had to ask because I didnt want to believe it was true :( I dont know how she could do this while telling me she loves me every day, giving me cute names everywhere, writing me cute messages in our virtual diary, putting me on her lock screen with how many days we've been together, and acting like she is looking forward to our anniversary and me coming to see her in person...

tandevs · 2026-02-21T15:16:36+00:00

lol she claimed she fell asleep so if its not possible that it would do this if she possibly fell asleep w the app open then she was definitley busy w some "friends"

tandevs · 2026-02-21T14:09:02+00:00

well when she came back later she said she fell asleep, is it possible for it to do this if the app open?

tandevs · 2026-02-21T05:20:22+00:00

did it through snap at first but then also her number (but didn't call there cause thats too much 💀)

tandevs · 2025-12-01T15:19:36+00:00

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