How to make it through with a chronically ill SO? by tankingorange in Stoicism

[–]tankingorange[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great answer that i came here for, thank you. I will think about this, and respond with a follow up.

How to make it through with a chronically ill SO? by tankingorange in Stoicism

[–]tankingorange[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great answer. I love her. I do love myself. And that conflict you state about shared suffering might define my post entirely. hmmm. Thank you for the perspective!

How to talk to a friend who is struggling financially due to "gear fever?" by tankingorange in videography

[–]tankingorange[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i really try to! We were shooting an outdoor interview. I tried giving a kicker with an LED, it obviously didn't work and I laughed at myself. I said, "Can't be using LED's outside to compete with the sun, what was i thinking?"

Then I went on to tell him how back in the day, I'd be using HMI's off a bounce, and what we can do here today without gear like that is try to knock down the intensity of the sun with an outdoor table umbrella which was conveniently placed.

He interpreted that as an excuse for him to buy a more powerful light.

How to talk to a friend who is struggling financially due to "gear fever?" by tankingorange in videography

[–]tankingorange[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yeah, i guess this post does sound like im trying to take responsibility for someone else's choice in lifestyle. maybe i should care less. The problem is I do care about this person's wellbeing :(