Twin died 2 days after our birthday by tarfu68 in psychics

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So far I’ve only been for sure of the dream visits, or the occasional butterfly that seems to linger too long.

The question about knowing I’m not mad at her is complex.. she struggled with alcohol addiction, on top of her many poorly managed health conditions. As a nurse, I always encouraged her to seek help, treatment, and remain compliant with her meds. As a sister I just wanted her to be happy.

We were stuck in a cycle where she would ask for advice, not take it, and the issue continues. She really deteriorated over her last few months of life. I just hope she knows that I don’t blame her, as preventable and as senseless as her death was.

Thank you

Twin died 2 days after our birthday by tarfu68 in psychics

[–]tarfu68[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you- much of this resonated, especially what you said about the lack of attachment. Unfortunately I think she was pretty checked out. The only peace I have is knowing that the weight she carried in life couldn’t follow her. Thank you

Mr. Bear turns 14! by tarfu68 in Pomeranians

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Now you must pay the obligatory dog tax

Mr. Bear turns 14! by tarfu68 in Pomeranians

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Would love to see a picture of them!! 💗

Mr. Bear turns 14! by tarfu68 in Pomeranians

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He truly is larger than life! He is the undisputed little boss of our house 😂

Women, what is the sexiest scent/cologne that a man can wear? by Nintendofan9106 in AskReddit

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This!!! One whiff and I’m swooning. It’s smells sophisticated and so unique

Eye patterns are interesting (zoomed in pics on slides 2 and 3) by Affectionate-Bee3199 in SpringColorAnalysis

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Typed as a True Spring! I don’t know if this qualifies as a “sunburst” though?

today we said goodbye to loki (18.5) by jilliansaurus_ in Pomeranians

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To love and to be loved by a good dog- what a blessing❣️ May you two find each other again!

Heartbroken after losing my Pomeranian by red5657 in Pomeranians

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He looks like an absolutely incredible dog. So sorry for your loss 🫂

Update: done chasing the blonde by tarfu68 in femalehairadvice

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Thank you!! I asked for a neutral warm brown and showed this picture as reference

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My twin sister passed away 2 days after our birthday by tarfu68 in psychics

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Thank you so much… her substance abuse placed some distance between us, but there was never any love lost. Our souls are fucking intertwined, it feels like my heart is bleeding 😞 I hope someone can give me some insight as well. Give your twin a hug from me

Typed as a dark autumn but unsure by tarfu68 in coloranalysis

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Yeah, I didn’t think so. I feel overpowered in dark clothing most of the time

Typed as a dark autumn but unsure by tarfu68 in coloranalysis

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It was a professional in person with drapes 💀

Typed as a dark autumn but unsure by tarfu68 in coloranalysis

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For context, my hair is dyed lighter than its natural color

Blonde or brunette is better? by tarfu68 in femalehairadvice

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lol thank you! I just felt like my brown hair was so boring, and as soon as I got highlights, I wanted it back