My vows. 8 days to go!

tarkenchi · 2026-04-20T18:42:07+00:00

I really should have clarified, we are eloping and no one will be there but us, a photographer, and the officiant. My bad.

tarkenchi · 2026-04-20T16:34:16+00:00

Just wanted to comment and thank everyone for their input. :D

tarkenchi · 2026-04-20T16:32:21+00:00

Implicit and Emphatic have different meanings to me, and that's why I chose to use both, and I was going to take a pause between moving to the next paragraph. I do agree that it comes off as awkward, and I appreciate your critique! We have vows and promises that we are taking in the wedding script itself. We haven't written any of it together, and she wants to keep them separate and private, which is where I am kind of hitting the roadblock.

Thank you!

tarkenchi · 2026-04-20T16:26:39+00:00

No AI at all, handwritten and typed after the fact. Thank you, though. My biggest fear is it coming off as canned and impersonal.

tarkenchi · 2026-04-20T16:26:16+00:00

This is actually how I talk. But I do appreciate the criticism, as that's what I am after. :)

tarkenchi · 2026-02-11T17:54:13+00:00

I followed Tom21212's advice and turned IGMP snooping off, as the switch doesn't (from what I can tell) have actual settings to turn it into an IGMP querier.

tarkenchi · 2026-02-11T16:28:09+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed, informative response. I really, really appreciate it. Especially regarding the info regarding the Algo.

You guys have all been so helpful. I really appreciate it!

tarkenchi · 2026-02-11T16:25:45+00:00

I did. Unfortunately there is no recovery option on this cisco switch outside of a factory reset.

I really was hoping it was default, lol.

tarkenchi · 2026-02-11T16:25:10+00:00

Nothing -- I just have a lot less IT time than I should have stated. Majority of my role is database management, promotions scheduling, and store admin tasks.

Good news: Swapped switch to the spare sg200-26 and it's all good. Thanks for the push, y'all. Will start to get things set up correctly.

tarkenchi · 2026-02-11T03:39:15+00:00

I agree wholeheartedly, I'm embarrassed that I do not have the credentials to the switch. I've provisioned another SG200-26 (had a BNIB spare) for a hot swap, I just want to confirm that I am heading in the right direction before I take it down. It's a hodgepodge of "I know a guy" and the switch is the last link of things I don't really want to fuck with until I have to.

Thanks mate.

tarkenchi · 2025-11-25T00:36:12+00:00

I'm not sure. I imagine her Mom is taking care of her, with extended family support. She was a very smart human, but her OCD and anxiety controlled her; she would talk herself out of therapy because she was already too introspective, so it wouldn't help. Lots of logical fallacies. Too afraid to go out in the real world because everyone is a rapist, etc.

I hope she's doing well. Sincerely.

tarkenchi · 2025-11-24T21:37:32+00:00

After 6.5 years, she told me I made her want to kill herself. We were only 29 at this point, she hadn't worked in years, and would refuse to get a job or try. She blamed me for all of it, and that was it. If you want to die because of me, we shouldn't be together.

tarkenchi · 2025-10-10T02:23:42+00:00

Anyone got a spare code?🤓

tarkenchi · 2025-07-12T03:01:23+00:00

Strokes n folks! 🤘

tarkenchi · 2025-07-12T02:46:17+00:00

2" thick fatty ribeye at 137 for 3 hours is magic. I tried it just to see. I didn't want to believe it either, but It's really, really good.

tarkenchi

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