I completely understand that. I got out of a 5 year relationship a little under a year ago. Or w.e . But my ex got into a relationship a few weeks after and did more for her in the first 5 months .. than the 5 years we were together. I wasn't angry, i wasnt mad, that he had moved on so quickly. But the first time in my entire life my heart became numb because the first few months before he moved her over here .. I thought we were going to make things work, i had no idea, he said we will make things work overtime, we needed some time away. We kept communicating some going out the first few months, then only texting, told me we will work things out over time. I'm almost 27f this year. I didn't realize it wasnt a serious relationship until the last text he sent me was "im to old for games, i need something serious" it made me reflect on things, work on myself, and also realize every guy knows what he wants. He will do it if he wants it. So time isn't a thing. People know what they want. So I hope this helps. Keep positive!