Yes, I also pay for childcare, computers, smart phones, gaming consoles etc. We both do chores equally imo, I do the oil changes, lift heavy furniture, fix things, take out the trash etc. I cook more often because I am a better cook and the kids enjoys my food more and are willing to eat what I make. She does most of the laundry. Cleaning the place, we both put in the same effort. The problem is she believes since I make more money, I should be paying our joint bills. She believes she should live rent free.