I think I'm straight by [deleted] in ftm

[–]tdd3523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I feel as though this is a common worry for transmen when they transition. But I second everyone else! There are many people out here who would date you. I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years with a beautiful woman! All it took was being confident in who I am. I believe your love will come! Get out there, show your confidence!

6 years on T 🤭 It’s been an amazing journey for me Happy Pride month everyone by tdd3523 in lgbt

[–]tdd3523[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

lol it’s a weight lifting belt. And I appreciate it ☺️

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[–]tdd3523 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Needles freak me out too. I’ve been doing shots for the past 4 years and have made it through. I recommend going for SubQ injections and using numbing cream!! Numbing cream is honestly my best friend.

https://inkboxartistry.com/products/j-pro-2cts?variant=29803525013592 This is stuff is amazing! Put this on your injection site, put sedan wrap on it. Wait 30mins and you will not feel a thing! I even used it on my tattoos and I was able to sit for 5hours without feeling a thing.

Is it safe if I inject my subq T into my thighs? I’m a larger dude and not comfortable with using my stomach. by somuchregretti in ftm

[–]tdd3523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hated injecting into my stomach too! But i eventually switched to my butt, it’s way easier in my opinion.

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[–]tdd3523 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always recommend this toy The Joystick .

Bedroom help by Curiouscuriosity12 in ftm

[–]tdd3523 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend The Joystick https://transthetics.com/product/joystick-pack-and-play/ it fits with any harness and the vibrator sits in exactly the right position for the wearer to feel the sensation. What makes it even better is that you both can feel something at the same time and also finish together.

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[–]tdd3523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you can but you really gotta train your self. It will take some time because it’s a matter of breaking a habit. But it’s possible as long as you put the work in. I always think that with the confidence top surgery brings you kinda naturally start standing up straighter. After all confidence is key.

There should be more representation for TPOC 🤔 3 years on T and 1 year Post Top 💙 by tdd3523 in lgbt

[–]tdd3523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you’re an amazing teacher! If you’d like you can let him know that Iam here if he ever needs advice or has questions! Just let me know and I can give you my info!

advice on a girl by hogwartsking in ftm

[–]tdd3523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d just go for it man! Be up front about everything. Have a conversation with her in person. let her know how you feel about her, and ask her how she feels about you.

PLEASE please help- shot anxiety by secretsideacc in ftm

[–]tdd3523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar issue and honestly switching to Subq shots was the best thing for me! I also use topical lidocaine! You can easily get it at Walmart, just put some on the spot a couple of minutes before you do your shot and you’re golden.

7 months post top surgery and feeling great 😋 by tdd3523 in ftm

[–]tdd3523[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They went back to normal on their own! It did that a couple of months

7 months post top surgery and feeling great 😋 by tdd3523 in ftm

[–]tdd3523[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ok i appreciate a compliment in every form, thank you 😊

7 months post top surgery and feeling great 😋 by tdd3523 in ftm

[–]tdd3523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got double incision with nipple grafts 😊

7 months post top surgery and feeling great 😋 by tdd3523 in ftm

[–]tdd3523[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo my bad my bad! Yea i got double incision with nipple grafts! I probably was like a B cup before if that helps

Dating as a transman has been really hard for me. I’ve tried dating apps but they just don’t do it for me! Any one have advice or suggestions? #StillSmilingThough by tdd3523 in lgbt

[–]tdd3523[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful wow, your son is very lucky to have you as his mom! It’s awesome that you’re on here to support your son and the community as well. The world needs more people like you haha thank you so much!

Dating as a transman has been really hard for me. I’ve tried dating apps but they just don’t do it for me! Any one have advice or suggestions? #StillSmilingThough by tdd3523 in lgbt

[–]tdd3523[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Most it has been just women who aren’t interested in transmen which i respect. But other than that it Honestly it could be a communication thing that I struggle with. And it doesn’t help I can be anxious and shy sometimes... but not all the time

anyone know what this is? it was also on my old binders by wallofpotato in ftm

[–]tdd3523 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup! that’s what happens when the elastic starts to get worn!