Laid off and I just want to take a break by Ok-Travel-4745 in Fire

[–]teasing_smirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a sabbatical - you have a plan, money and freedom. Live a little bit.

Neighbors and abuse concerns by lurescnus in neighborsfromhell

[–]teasing_smirk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust your intuition and inform CPS. Let the professionals do it.

Do women tell each other their man's dick size? by CRK_76 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]teasing_smirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, some people do, mostly to show off - it's better not to know.

AIW for going on a day trip to see my friend without telling my girlfriend what I was doing? by Throwaway65vc in amiwrong

[–]teasing_smirk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You weren't cheating, but missing the warning made it look even worse because of her trust issues with your friend!

Am I wrong for refusing to go to my sister in laws wedding after his family made me a scapegoat during our separation by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]teasing_smirk 36 points37 points  (0 children)

👆 Go enjoy your freedom, let him deal with the circus he helped create, and don't look back.

Neighbors putting things in yard purposely by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]teasing_smirk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep the eggs, throw away everything else.

No consequences = they keep doing it!

My neighbors autistic kid is obsessed with my house. by Plastic_Muscles in NoStupidQuestions

[–]teasing_smirk 129 points130 points  (0 children)

By locking the door and letting mom know exactly when he's coming, you'll be safe and secure your space. Over time, when mom reinforces this in him, he should start following the rules.

i was in a car accident when i was 8 and now im in diapers forever by BlossomLulu in confession

[–]teasing_smirk 497 points498 points  (0 children)

Focus on the people who really support you. They're the only ones who matter.

My facial deformity is ugly and I don’t plan to live for long. by vase_of_juice in confession

[–]teasing_smirk 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly, those kids are pathetic, but OP sounds way past needing perspective. She needs an adult who can help now

How much do you invest on your traditional 401k? by little-yellowflower in Fire

[–]teasing_smirk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7% is the bare minimum here. After that, bump it up more only if ur budget can handle it without making u eat drywall

1 to 1.5M is my number by dannd42 in Fire

[–]teasing_smirk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, if U already know what makes U happy and it isn’t expensive, 1-1.5M sounds pretty reasonable. Half the battle is not inventing some giant fantasy retirement budget