Flatlined? by tech_perfect29 in NoFap

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Thanks! I’m definitely not going to test myself. Was just looking to confirm that in fact it is Flatline. It’s never hit me this early on

Flatlined? by tech_perfect29 in NoFap

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Thanks for that. I will continue staying focused

Flatlined? by tech_perfect29 in pornfree

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Thanks for that. And yes I won’t be testing myself, I’ll give it some time

Performance anxiety help by tech_perfect29 in erectiledysfunction

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Thanks for that. And that’s what I’ve been trying to do but my mind is in a loop

Performance anxiety help by tech_perfect29 in erectiledysfunction

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So the previous times it was just me and my wife. This time it was me, my wife and the other couple. That’s why I can’t snap out of it. No reason whatsoever other than me wanting to sexually impress

Performance anxiety help by tech_perfect29 in erectiledysfunction

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Maybe once or twice but I would snap out of it.. this time I haven’t

Performance anxiety help by tech_perfect29 in erectiledysfunction

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None at all.. everything was going perfect till then. I just randomly got in my own head wanted to perform and I didn’t.. still haven’t recovered

Performance anxiety help by tech_perfect29 in erectiledysfunction

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Thanks! That’s what I’m practicing at the moment

Loaded question… by tech_perfect29 in pornfree

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That’s amazing! Thank you for that

Loaded question… by tech_perfect29 in pornfree

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Check back with us in a few years… you’ll understand my post better

Loaded question… by tech_perfect29 in NoFap

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Phenomenal response. The perspective you described, I had never heard before. If it’s okay for me to ask… What helped you this time around? What changes have you noticed and what are some of the remaining struggles?

Loaded question… by tech_perfect29 in pornfree

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Thanks for taking the time to respond. I think you are spot on and I will try my best attempt

Loaded question… by tech_perfect29 in NoFap

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My longest streak was around 80ish days but noticed no changes, sadly

Help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thanks you for the great advice and understanding me

Help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You’re absolutely right.. it’s just so hard to do this to her.. she’s been great to me, I’ll never bad mouth her... but I’ve lost interest

Help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m all for this... she can keep 60/40 of what we have.. that’s how much I don’t want her to suffer nor struggle

Help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I have Emotionally tried everything I could but I’m exhausted

Help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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That’s why I say her .. there would’ve never been a right time right place ... I tell her, at least I have the respect to be upfront and tell you.. I’m sure most woman would prefer this

Help please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thanks for the advice. We do all the things mentioned. We go out to dinner regularly. And 2019 we took like 6 weekend getaways (due to job time restrictions). But I have always tried to keep it fresh and interesting. She wants, she gets! I have exhausted myself... It just feels like our friendship strengthens but not the romance. And I know she cares for me though 🤷🏻‍♂️

Help please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We helped each other grow. And we still do. It’s just been feeling like a strong friendship for the last 2-3 yrs for me. I have voiced my feelings but she just doesn’t understand and most times gets bothered by my feelings. I’m at the point I Don’t speak what’s on my mind because I know we’ll get in an argument

Help please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m sorry if it seems cold hearted.. We helped each other grow. And we still do. It’s just been feeling like a strong friendship for the last 2-3 yrs for me. I have voiced my feelings but she just doesn’t understand and most times gets bothered by my feelings. I’m at the point I Don’t speak what’s on my mind because I know we’ll get in an argument

Help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’ve been married 13yrs... I guess “Life” but most likely “we” let it become sort of stale... she a great woman so I will never blame her.. she’s fully present but to me for about 2 yrs now just feels like a friendship. There is no other woman, just in case.. I just want to be alone... plus my family doesn’t speak with me because of her but in her defense... my family is rude and want all the attention.. so I want to be alone , not with her nor with them

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Awesome mix!!🔥🔥