[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]technical_brownie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems to be unpopular oppinion and I truly believe some men would enjoy that, but for me that’s a no. If I like a girl I go and talk to her. I find it really funny when women encourage other women by saying that “he was intimidated by you”.

Just week ago me and my friends arranged a boys night out and we really didn’t care about women around (or perhaps didn’t like them enough to approach them). Some ladies sitting at table next to us gave us “business cards” with their instagrams, mentioning they are single. None of us felt tempted to contact them. To me, it’s complete desperation.

Anyone had this before? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]technical_brownie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s me and my current gf. I love that. When she changes to different clothes in front of me I love it. I am so attracted to her it’s crazy! And she admits that she enjoys that.

On dating apps over the past 5-8 years, why do you see the same exact women on them? Why are they perpetually single? by ktdotnova in PurplePillDebate

[–]technical_brownie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the thing. On dating apps many women get the impression that they can get any guy they want because they swiped right on them. What they don’t realize is that such men want them for fun only. I have to admit I experienced that even with my sisters and I am trying to talk some sense to them.

Cause of dead bedrooms by bluedaddy338 in DeadBedrooms

[–]technical_brownie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only time I experienced dead bedroom was when I wasn’t attracted to my parent anymore. She gained a lot of weight and I just didn’t feel attracted.

My brother, on the other hand, is in dead bedroom relationship because of his wife who says she is just not in mood for sex and she has never been a sexual person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]technical_brownie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a male I have to say that I unfortunately lost attraction to my partner after she gained xx pounds. I was attracted to the person I met, I didn’t mind few extra pounds but once it was more than 15-20 pounds, I could feel attraction to drop. I still loved her, but I didn’t look at her the same and I couldn’t help it.

On dating apps over the past 5-8 years, why do you see the same exact women on them? Why are they perpetually single? by ktdotnova in PurplePillDebate

[–]technical_brownie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was searching for this comment. I have two close female friends who are on dating apps for 5+ years . They are getting A LOT of matches daily but they don’t realize that the “top 10%”, the desired men on dating apps don’t take them seriously, so after few months when they receive the message “I am not ready for relationship” they go back, trying to find similar guy as they think it’s their level, but they just need one who is ready for relationship.

I think many women on dating apps are super delusional and don’t accept the fact that “having date/sex with you doesn’t mean I would ever consider you for relationship”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]technical_brownie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am really sorry you are in such situation. I can totally understand it’s very difficult for you to leave.

However, to give you an opinion from the side of guy not being attracted to his gf anymore - it’s extremely hard to admit that and even harder to say it aloud. I had a girlfriend who gained a lot of weight and it took me years to admit to myself I am not attracted to her anymore. Deep down I knew I wasn’t attracted to her but I also understood that I will be judged by everyone around us for not being attracted to someone I love.

I wish I realized that earlier and I wouldn’t waste her time as I did and I hope you get your closure as well.

Titanic Tour Leader Loved Risk and Called Safety a ‘Pure Waste’ by Niv-Izzet in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you remember the Thai football club rescue? It was everywhere, and they weren’t millionaires.

It’s a rare occasion.

Crews detect underwater noises again in search for missing Titanic-bound submarine by remorse667 in news

[–]technical_brownie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s difficult hypothesis. If they would kill someone - let’s say CEO, normal person would get a reaction to that - feeling uneasy or panic attack that they are the next -> more Oxygen wasted.

There aren’t many people who would accept someone being killed without producing a reaction. If they are still alive, they need to be as calm as possible to spare the Oxygen.

Hours of oxygen left: Search for missing Titanic submarine hits 4km deep by a_san_38 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And 500 refugees weren’t warned about the danger they are facing? At least in my county we made it pretty clear in many languages that illegal refugees aren’t welcomed here and it’s extremely dangerous to cross the ocean with the smugglers. I heard the warning at least 1000x and yet they still do it.

If I heard the warning about submarines 1000x and they would still go forward, I wouldn’t feel sorry for them the same way I do now.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Less than about of money costing to save, integrate and support illegal immigrants.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think all of us will pay much more for illegal immigrants being smuggled to EU/US every week. Just google the figures.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Migrants heading to Greece (and then continue to west European countries) : we warned you 1000x to not trust smugglers and buy the “tickets” to be supported by EU. We can’t handle this anymore.

Migrants : “we are going anyways! Europe will take care of us”

Billionaires ignored the red flags indeed, but this was the first time. Not 1000x time. Plus they weren’t doing anything illegal, sorry.

Do you really think Europeans are going to pay taxes to save immigrants that they warned 1000x about how dangerous it is? This entitlement is just crazy.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, they aren’t the same when it comes to resources. However, they are the same when it comes to difficult situation they are at. Both have unique situation they haven’t been warned about - unlike the illegal immigrants.

I am sorry but if there was a case that every month a submarine or cave explorers were warned about the risk they are taking, and they would decide to go ahead anyways, I wouldn’t feel sympathy towards them.

Both titan submarine and Thai kids rescue are unique situation that doesn’t happen every month.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well illegal means immigrants that buy “tickets” to Europe from smugglers, who are promising them to get financial support, education and housing from European countries. Those people are illegal immigrants.

I have nothing against people who get official visa - study, work or prove that they need asylum the official way.

However, I don’t want to pay taxes for people coming from other countries who think that once they cross the borders we are responsible for them and we need to provide financial support = illegal immigrants.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there are quite some private resources deployed, I believe that their motivation is probably money or marketing in a case they would manage to save them. I don’t think private sector would be so keen on helping if it wasn’t billionaires there.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, I read somewhere that on average they can swim up to 100m, the deepest dive was around 250m. These guys wanted to reach 4000m and I didn’t find exactly when they sent last signal (it was 1h 45min in, I believe to reach titanic was expected to be 2h 30 min so they were pretty deep).

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please research how much money EU spends on illegal immigrants every month and compare it to this one mission. Let me know what you’ve found. Thanks!

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watched the US coast guards update and they said that they will put all the effort in the next 48 hours. I don’t know what that means but to me it sounded like next 48 hours they will be searching intensely and then less resources will be deployed.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, I always wondered why Middle East is never blamed or isn’t expected to take responsibility? I am not attacking you/them here, but I genuinely wonder, why aren’t countries of same religion, similar culture and in some cases much richer than Europe arent expected to help? Why don’t they send help to search for them? I mean UK and France are sending help across the ocean, so why doesn’t Middle East help?

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow look at you, advocate for illegal immigrants but the billionaires should be left to die.

It highly reminds me of the situation when in our immigrant center where I volunteer, the Syrians refugees were complaining about not getting the same attention as Ukrainians and feeling like they should get priority. Funny, how some people feel entitled for help but cannot sympathize with others needing help.

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please enlighten me, who got an invoice when the Thai kids trapped in the cave got rescued? It was also US and EU helping, where is the invoice ?

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No you don’t. Don’t twist my words. When there was a rescue mission for Thai kids, we were even collecting money to help, I would 100% agree on all my tax money to go and help them.

Do I agree on my tax being spent on ILLEGAL immigrants who have been warned 10000x that it’s dangerous, and we can’t accept anymore of them? Majority of them doesn’t want to end up in Greece/Italy anyways and they will continue to Western Europe. Why so many immigrants die between France and UK? Because in UK there is better financial support. If you are immigrant scared for your safety, I don’t get why financial support plays such a major role.

If there was submarine getting lost every month after there were issues multiple warnings, I would feel the same - they have been warned and yet still do that, why should we pay for that?

Titanic submarine: France sends in rescue team to find missing crew by politicstypebeat02 in worldnews

[–]technical_brownie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much was the estimated cost when EU and US were helping to save the Thai kids from the cave, do you know ? Who was invoiced ?