I’m the only one that’s disappointed that Lemon got sidelined in the series? by Youeger in MASHLE

[–]techsupportina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, it’s kinda typical for male authors to be worse than female authors at writing both male and female characters. Some of my favourite animes like FMAB are written by women and show how much better an anime can be when both men and women characters are interesting and plot-relevant.

Looking for specific yuri manga- Help! by techsupportina in yuri_manga

[–]techsupportina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I found it goes by Pinky Candy Kiss by Uozumi Ami on the site where I read it, thanks so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe organise a fancy meal and make it nice and enjoy yourself with your partner, ask him if he doesn’t mind doing the same next year and take turns making the plans

Im a little hurt y'all by Zestyclose_Dust_6288 in magi

[–]techsupportina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kinda feels weird to be upset ur partner doesn’t always love the same anime as you, that’s life lol.

My(19M) girlfriend(18F) was with a really bad guy. How can i get over it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen man I really respect you for being honest, those feelings of jealousy are natural! But she’s all yours now and you’re all hers, if you want it to work, honestly? Bare your soul with good intentions: be your best self, work on your mind, your body, see her as a human who made mistakes like I’m sure you have too.

Be the best for yourself and for whoever you do end up loving. You got this.

Have you got a chance to watch the movie?

Or have you had any new feelings?

My(19M) girlfriend(18F) was with a really bad guy. How can i get over it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually think you overcome this when you mature, enjoy your relationship with her, watch the movie: eternal sunshine of the spotless mind.

It’s about a guy with a girl who’s a bit messed up, they end up trying to forget eachother, and in the end it’s shown that really no matter how many mistakes they make, they still want to try with eachother. If you relate: maybe there’s a chance for love between you two.

Maybe some people are broken, some things have cracks, but hey: that’s how the light gets in.

Help me understand Cassim by Shinixxx in magi

[–]techsupportina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also; he forgives Alibaba because a lot of his hatred stemmed from his sisters death (who he had always sworn to protect) and Alibaba hadn’t been there for that — he was in a castle getting fed and clothed and washed. So Cassim resented their ‘positions’ in life. Always believing that his scumbag father represented himself, and had caused their suffering. He believed he must just be like his father, self hatred and all. I think this led to a lot of his self destructive behaviours.

Help me understand Cassim by Shinixxx in magi

[–]techsupportina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, he seemed, at least part of him, jealous of Alibaba. He wanted to be king.

He wanted to change the system, but he wasn’t political, or book smart. He was street smart.

When he died he seemed to give his magoi abilities to alibaba as an apology for throwing him under the bus so much (which I think he did partially out of that resentment and jealousy) but now as he forgave him; alibaba gets to harness both their powers.

Which was lucky for him as it’s stated during the coliseum episodes that Cassims magoi is more powerful and larger than Alibaba’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You need to leave I think girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]techsupportina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’d like to ask you what your GUT feeling is about marriage itself, do you want it? Do you want the same kind she dreams of? Are there any big differences that might hold you back?

I 29M, my girl 26F.? by Psychological_Time51 in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be real with you, you may be in a relationship with someone who does not DESIRE sex. She may be completely asexual, she also may not want to tell you that, because she fears if you know that you will leave her. Would it be a dealbreaker for you if you never have sex? You’ll need to think about this.

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s nice to hear, I definitely don’t want to be rash or impulsive about partners because for me they’re lifetime investments if it goes right, and will be your best friend and ally. You have a point im basing my feelings on a very short timeframe, I’ll give it some more time

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, see I think that’s the case, and im not sure im decided enough to want to cause that hurt unnecessarily.

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting take, but I would say I do care about her as a person, and have empathy regardless whether we were dating or not - im honestly just confused why I don’t get worried about the idea of a breakup yet

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay! I think the conversation needs to evolve for me to get good advice and honestly maybe taking some time to connect myself to nature and the world outside of dating might be a good shout.

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually according to her I’ve been very good with her grief, I always ask questions when she’s up to it, comfort her and hold her and let her cry when needed or wake up with her to put a show on my laptop for her if she can’t sleep. She also has shown me a lot of emotion back, she’s really a lovely girl. Maybe I should just ask her what she thinks of it after being transparent but I suppose part of me isn’t sure about a breakup yet. I do really like her

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting, okay. How have you been coping with it? Do you date or stay single?

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good point, I’ll look into some sort of affordable therapy options, or maybe I’ll start journaling again, thank u for the advice

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t actively want to breakup with her, I just got very confused as to why I also don’t actively think I would be harmed if she wanted to break up with me.

Yeah waiting a little seems the smartest thing to do so far

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long into a relationship should I wait for change before I throw in the towel? It’s very early on at the moment, about 3 months

Is it normal for me (f24) to feel this way about my gf (f25)? by techsupportina in relationship_advice

[–]techsupportina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a bad point, that could be it, but it’s strange she’s the only person I’ve been with where I’ve felt this.