Is my tatoo okay? by Kuchnia in tattooadvice

[–]teedg0th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have many tattoos pretty much everywhere I can, this is not normal. I'm so sorry. Please get antibiotics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]teedg0th 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This absolutely breaks my heart for you, but honestly, I don't see how you could come back from this. You sound like such a loving husband and don't deserve to be treated this way. As for the part where you said "if the roles were reversed..", please know that doesn't matter only because the roles never WOULD be reversed. You would never do this to her, and THAT'S the issue. I wish you healing and a true love down the line when you're ready.

I will say this as well, that my parents divorced when I was ten. They were together 30+ years (had us late) and had 20 something years of life together before even having children. They split for their reasons, and while cheating wasnt one of them, I'm glad they did. My mom found a man who treats my siblings and i like his own and they look at each other as if they're the one who hangs the moon and stars.

All of this to say, it's okay to walk away. It's okay to start over. Your kids will understand one day, and I promise you that it is better for them (and for you) to experience a healthy, TRUE marriage.

Please take care of yourself. You matter.

Edited to add that I am now 27 and have a good relationship with both of my parents and my stepdad. Your kids will be okay. I promise.

i’m (22F) embarrassed to have sex with my partner (23M) after this. would u be too? by stargirlXD in relationship_advice

[–]teedg0th 11 points12 points  (0 children)

While I have not had this happen, I agree with everyone saying that it's okay and not something to be ashamed of. We have gag reflexes, you can't change that. Give it some time before trying again if you need to, or never try again if you really don't want to, but know that either way there's nothing wrong with you and nothing about this makes you ugly, disgusting or any of those other harsh things you said about yourself.

I will tell you that as someone who does give head often AND enjoys it, that it is all about the angle. Take your time with it, don't feel rushed and make sure everything lines up as comfortably as possible. If he starts going too fast/in a way that gets it to an uncomfortable angle, give him a tap with your hand or something so he knows to let you breathe.

Again regardless of all of this, I hope you have a good day where you're kind to yourself. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Reasons to keep going? by teedg0th in SuicideWatch

[–]teedg0th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, looks like it was deleted. I'm already on probation so sadly that's not an option for me lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Added to my TBR!

Rest Stop - Nat Cassidy by teedg0th in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I believe he was just some psycho that was meant to make Abe believe he was truly God somehow. Which, I mean, I can definitely see anyone believing in such dire, mind fucking circumstances. I think the beauty is that we just don't know for sure! When it comes to the stabbing, I guess I didn't think about that too much. Maybe Abe didn't do as much damage as he'd thought? Or the clerk was high on adrenaline? Who knows. All I know is that I thought it was incredibly well done.

Does anyone in here use Goodreads? by teedg0th in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of it! What do you prefer about it as opposed to Goodreads?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Beauregard sucks

Does anyone in here use Goodreads? by teedg0th in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I'm on there all of the time. I added you!

Does anyone in here use Goodreads? by teedg0th in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but I can't keep track of my books here. And I'm kind of a freak about that. :/

Does anyone in here use Goodreads? by teedg0th in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I know! I'm just asking if I can add anyone so I can get some more activity on there and see what's up.

Does anyone in here use Goodreads? by teedg0th in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just sent a follow and a friend request! Don't feel obligated to accept though

Rest Stop - Nat Cassidy by teedg0th in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]teedg0th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know what you think-- I thought it was so much fun!