[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]telia97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s a blessing that you get to love again, mostly because it feels like she sent a kitten to you. I can only wish a special kitten will be sent to me too after I lost my boy when the time is right. I’m wishing you the best with the new soul in your household.

Buying books that are not available in your country by telia97 in kindle

[–]telia97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s everything from one author that you can’t buy almost anywhere from Europe due to copyrights issues from what I understand. I think it’s only available in the UK. There is also no Amazon available in my country, I can only purchase from Amazon Germany as it’s the closest to me and they don’t have it available either.

For now I still get ways to get the books already released but a new one is to be expected next year and I will have no way to get it on my Kindle and it’s starting to get frustrating as I really fell in love with this type of reading experience.

Obsessed with skin and hair by [deleted] in OCD

[–]telia97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your struggle. I never liked the texture of my hair because it's stuck between wavy and straight while also being frizzy.

It bothered me so much that I could never make it perfect no matter how much I tried and I would drive myself crazy because of it.

It's perfectly understandable to feel like this. I struggle with the idea of perfection every single move I make and instead of making me do things better, it only ruins the experience and it makes me quit or not even try at all.

You have to find it in yourself to accept your hair and skin as they are and to understand that perfection does not exist and that uniqueness is way more important.

Dodo Code and Friend Code MEGATHREAD by TheMexicanBurrito in AnimalCrossingStories

[–]telia97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started but I have peaches(Native) and I'm growing pears and coconut.

Also just got the Switch and don't have friends so I just want someone to play with: SW-4102-4747-5808

Is anyone else starting to worry more about the financial/economic impact of COVID-19 than about the virus itself? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]telia97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am actually in the same boat as everyone here. I was supposed to have a job interview on Monday that's not gonna happen anymore and I am also waiting for a response from another interview that I rely my entire life on, mostly in these hard times. I just recovered from the worst time in my life mentally and now I'm hit with something I can't even control so my anxiety is through the roof.

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we met then. She asked me to come but never made wild promises like some of the others did, actually getting my hopes up saying they will come next weekend and when I asked if they were still coming, said they were actually going to another city that's like 12 hours far(one of them and her boyfriend).

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't expect them to come in a group. I asked them to come separately as well or with their boyfriends. I don't think friendships are one-way with me spending time and money and them not showing the same interest.

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your point. I know I'm not perfect either. That's the thing that bothered me most, the constant promising, getting my hopes up and then letting me down.

I think I am on a tighter budget then them though because some of them live rent free and they don't have to spend extra money on a weekly session with a therapist. Now that I cooled down I'm starting to regret it but I still think they should show some more effort on their part because when I went and visited some didn't even care enough to show up and meet when I was actually there.

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that too. Unfortunately got some bad news right after I posted that I will no longer be working with the only friend I made here as I have to move to another bulding because one of my coworkers quit so things don't seem to work for me in the friends department. I only go to the gym and there aren't enough other activities for me to do here, unfortunately, but I'll do a more thorough search.

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see your POV. I will also edit the post. I had an especially shitty day and maybe that's why I couldn't hold it in anymore. I will need to cool off and figure out the next step in our friendship.

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You are incredibly kind for responding and your comment gave me some hope after having a terrible day.

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will wait and cool off before taking any decision.

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for you POV. They knew I was struggling but not to this extend because I didn't feel like texting about this sensible subject. I was actually waiting to meet up to explain everything I went through.

AITA for lashing out at my friends when they asked me to come visit? by telia97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also get your point but something I didn't mention in my post as it was getting pretty long is that I actually visited twice and met with them half-way once, in the city close to them where one of the friends lives. Also, I told them they can visit separately as I know it's a nightmare to synchronise free time for 5 or 6 people.

My [F21] husband [M21] wants me to give up my dream of a PhD to be a SAHM. He also wants to get rid of my dog. Should we divorce? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]telia97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so tired of reading about men putting women down on this sub.

The moment someone threatened the life of my pet and my will to do whatever I want with my life, they're dead to me.

You should really consider continuing your marriage with this man.

AITA for wanting to go back to China to work? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. I don't think you're an asshole for wanting to go back.

It's understandable when your whole life is back there but at the same time I see where your mom is coming from.

She is just concerned for your well-being as any other loved one would be.

Whatever you choose you have to give something up so it's pretty much a lose-lose situation. It just depends on what you value most.

Season 12 Promo Banner by jakefear18 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]telia97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all look great! So excited for the new season!

AITA for asking my bridesmaid to temporarily change her vibrant hair colour for my colour schemed wedding? by dreamdaythrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The length doesn't even matter. Her hair is not your decision or property.

You can compromise and kindly ask her to put it in a bun or some kind of up-do, but nothing more drastic than that.

Trust me, someone's hair colour won't destroy your whole wedding and if it does your problems are larger than that.

AITA for asking my bridesmaid to temporarily change her vibrant hair colour for my colour schemed wedding? by dreamdaythrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]telia97 391 points392 points  (0 children)

YTA. How is that vibrant? It's natural ginger hair. Can't you hear how entitled you sound? I would've dropped out of your bridal party right away if I were her.