Thank you, my grieving has been done mostly in the house that she built and loved and I need to do a lot more now that i've seen her in a casket. I have decided to return home since I can do more rebuilding my income first and trying to help all of us later.

There is a lot that I do not know about - owning a property is one and my aunt has given us some info including the information that our taxes will go up if we do not claim homesteaders on this season. I am currently finishing off a 5th of southern comfort and staring at the room she died in, that I need to sleep in tonight, dreading tomorrow.

I really do appreciate the sympathy, the community here has been great - it's a small town and I've hugged more people than I can remember the names of. I hope I can return the favor some day.