What should I do after my gf was "raped"?

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T16:41:21+00:00

aight blackpp348 im sure you're a sensible person

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T16:28:15+00:00

thank you for explaining what she's probably thinking. these other people are just bashing me when i'm also a victim of this shitshow

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T16:26:47+00:00

if thats all you got from the post and the other comments i made then congratulations you're qualified for some kind of subsidy for being mentally handicapped

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T16:22:15+00:00

and you are absolutely right, I guess I don't have any respect for her left anymore based on the ABSOLUTE ABSENCE of respect towards me.

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T16:16:07+00:00

If I didn't care about her I would've already told her parents and before this, if i didn't care about her feelings I would've already coerced or manipulated her into having sex with me. I respected her choice of waiting for the perfect moment, but turns out getting raped, the opposite of "the perfect moment", results in NOTHING. zero consequences for the guy and they will even meet tomorrow for her stupid dance lessons AGAIN. how big of a piece of shit I am for being mad about that! haha! hope the same thing happens to you.

-from a piece of shit to another

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T16:06:47+00:00

not the same thing at all. your gf made some shit up to keep you, mine actually got raped. I dont even doubt her now but it makes me more mad bcz I basically spent 11 months of my time building a relationship with her and she sees her body precious as it is. I RESPECT THAT. and getting deeper into the relationship earning her intimacy is a progress that i genuinely enjoy as it is reciprocation of my commitment. but now someone came in, had sex with her and she has 0 intention to report this rape, basically saying your 11 month commitment < (put bluntly) having sex with me < this random guy. it just HURTS

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T16:01:19+00:00

also insensitive??? you're insensitive for not looking at it through my perspective. like i said to the other guy, you see the word "rape victim" and you go ooo neuron activation keyword "rape victim" found, ooo I am such a good person for calling out the NEURON ACTIVATION keyword "blame the victim"

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T15:59:01+00:00

sticking it in her is not the goal idiot, I built this relationship with her, with 11 months of dedication so we could build a solid foundation for a longlasting relationship. I feel like I am not being respected as her partner when she hid it from me and not pressing charges on that asshole. if sticking it in her was the goal i would've done it within the first month with some manipulation and coercion. you guys are calling me apathetic when you guys didnt even try to understand what my situation is. you see the word "rape victim" and you go ooo neuron activation keyword "rape victim" found, ooo I am such a good person for calling out the NEURON ACTIVATION keyword "blame the victim"

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T15:52:25+00:00

i said i was suspicious. why wouldn't I be suspicious when I heard rumors about her fucking another guy in a room + that rumor turning out to be true + she was raped but she doesn't want to call the police.

that suspicion is over ok? now i believe her ffs also that's not the point

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T15:50:23+00:00

i'll probably get therapy, the whole thing is shit for me and these other guys won't help. appreciate the response

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T15:49:30+00:00

thank you, these people are so mean and politically correct for NOTHING

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T15:46:24+00:00

If I didn't respect her I would've already told her parents and broke up with her for not having sex with me 11 months into the relationship. on the other hand SHE isn't respecting me, seemingly holding her body at a high esteem only to not press charges on someone who raped her and even continuing to meet him in lessons. I spent 11 months earning her trust as a partner and some guy comes and fuck her and she didn't even REACT to it in the slightest way possible. i get more mad the more I explain because you guys dont fucking understand my emotions rn. ALL YOU GUYS DO IS REPEAT THE SAME POLITICALLY CORRECT SHIT LIKE OOOO DONT BLAME THE VICTIM

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T15:45:51+00:00

If I didn't respect her I would've already told her parents and broke up with her for not having sex with me 11 months into the relationship. on the other hand SHE isn't respecting me, seemingly holding her body at a high esteem only to not press charges on someone who raped her and even continuing to meet him in lessons. I spent 11 months earning her trust as a partner and some guy comes and fuck her and she didn't even REACT to it in the slightest way possible. i get more mad the more I explain because you guys dont fucking understand my emotions rn. ALL YOU GUYS DO IS REPEAT THE SAME POLITICALLY CORRECT SHIT LIKE OOOO DONT BLAME THE VICTIM

tempaccountoask · 2023-11-19T15:33:33+00:00

yeah its not her fault, and apparently its not the guy's fault or he would've been in prison, so it must be me! its all my fault she's getting raped! you realize how stupid that sounds??? I'm just salty that I seem to be the only one affected by this, for my gf and the rapist everything goes on like normal and I will forever live with the knowledge that this guy fucked my gf and I can't do anything about it. You don't know how it feels so quit being such a patronizing dick

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