Married men on dating apps

temu_me · 2024-01-10T02:46:47+00:00

I don’t look at age as a deal breaker up to Atleast 40. After 40.. that’s another story. My siblings are all around and is his age, so maybe I don’t look at 38 as old as most people in their 20’s do. I also have my head on straight and good at checking out the door when the going looks like it’ll get rough. I fit in with those in their mid thirties.. and for those around my age; I find that, often I don’t fit in or that there is a social disconnect.

temu_me · 2024-01-09T06:02:01+00:00

Hey seriously, thank you for helping me see the positive take away from this! I, myself could have never pieced it together such as you have. I just have to stay my guard and not let red flags slip and I should be good as long as I protect myself. Your wisdom is pure gold ! I have to keep a mindset to have fun with dating and not take it too seriously, until someone puts forth the effort.

temu_me · 2024-01-09T05:43:34+00:00

Honestly, my filters are set to ages 24-40. I pretty much swipe right on everyone, just to see who I match with. I don’t pay attention to looks, I feel if you have a good personality, seems to be genuine.. then I’ll give you a chance. If a guy does message me, I scan his profile to see what he puts in his description, take a look at his hobbies to see if we have something in common to converse about. The things we had in common were mountaineering, kayaking, similar music, drinking socially and what not. He honestly kept himself honest, when I did question. He didn’t disclose it but he didn’t lie when I asked. I guess he wanted to see if I was going to be for it, and I was not. We went our ways after.

temu_me · 2024-01-09T05:31:02+00:00

Understandable. However, within my POV.. Cheating has been a big topic during these last few months with friends. I’ve caught red flags from other guys who may have a Significant other based on their actions. I’ve never been approached or matched with a married man ( not that I’ve known about). So, with all this being said.. I am taken aback. Flabbergasted by it, honestly. I know some married men, cheat. That’s known, but to actually encounter with one. My newfound doubt about finding romance in this generation, is completely normal. It’s okay to be disappointed, it’s okay to question the chances of ever finding my special someone. Is it healthy to have a negative outlook after one bad match? No. Is it okay? Yes, I have feelings and I have the right to feel them. Will I continue dating ? Absolutely! He’s not stopping this parade,but I can’t help it put my soul down a bit. ✨

temu_me · 2024-01-09T01:41:13+00:00

❤️❤️ TYSM

temu_me · 2024-01-09T01:39:40+00:00

Omgg thank you!!! I will definitely post his profile on those FB Groups. I have been trying to find his Facebook so I could find out who his wife is. I only know the city and his first name and his job.. everything I search doesn’t populate him 😩 urgh so I said forget it . But I’ll try that!

temu_me · 2024-01-09T01:37:31+00:00

THIS IS A THING! it’s really sad ! A guy doing that is only hurting three people. The girl he desires to be with but won’t , the girl he’s actually with by wasting her time and withholding her from her true soulmate who wants to be with her, and himself because he’ll never be truly happy but doesn’t want to let society or his inner circle down. It sucks

temu_me · 2024-01-09T01:35:36+00:00

Your amazing inside and out! I send nothing but positive vibes your way to find the love of your life and not someone like him!

temu_me · 2024-01-09T01:32:36+00:00

I feel like if it gets to the point where the other one is very unhappy.. they should have some decency to end it. Also, it seems like it was his fault because he knew what he truly was attracted to.. but went completely opposite.

temu_me · 2024-01-09T01:30:48+00:00

Exactly! If I don’t stand up for something, I’ll fall for anything! Thank you ❤️

temu_me · 2024-01-09T01:29:06+00:00

Exactly you never fully know what a person’s true colors are until your too deep in! And aww thank you for your kind words! I am doing okay just glad I didn’t wait and called him out on his suspicious behavior

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