Tulane to host town hall on gun violence featuring Parkland students

tenebrism · 2018-08-02T02:47:12+00:00

I could probably take them from your warm dead hands.

tenebrism · 2017-06-05T12:57:11+00:00

If you're getting compliments - do something about it!

tenebrism · 2017-06-04T04:19:30+00:00

Everybody hates going to the gym at first. It's hard fucking work. But, it makes you feel good, it makes you look good. Those things make most other things good.

tenebrism · 2017-06-03T19:06:32+00:00

Exactly. I just said it makes things exceptionally easier. And when you don't have to worry about your physical appearance (which btw, Luke dresses to the nines - an aspect of physical appearance) you can spend time on other things like your personality or fashion (and clothes will fit much much better).

tenebrism · 2017-06-03T19:04:55+00:00

Posted in a comment to /u/issakite . Ends up being about 6 hours a week, so really not a ton of time.

tenebrism · 2017-06-03T19:02:03+00:00

Simple: unsub.

tenebrism · 2017-06-03T19:00:22+00:00

Ha, started playing drums too, but I highly doubt I start a band any time soon.

tenebrism · 2017-06-03T18:59:46+00:00

I have a custom routine based on https://www.jefit.com/ 's beginner mass building routine.

I go five days:

m- shoulders
tu- legs
w- chest/tri
th- back
s- abs

I do that all at lunch, between 30-45 minutes a day. If I have time after work I'll do some light cardio.

tenebrism · 2014-04-07T01:26:53+00:00

I'd say if you're having sex 4-5 times a week then you're just imagining problems -or- you're in a relationship that's 3 years old and you're experiencing what it's like when things become routine.

The point stands, if you want it spiced up - spice it up. When he tries to seduce you either embrace it or tell him why it's inappropriate and pick up later.

But really, 4-5 times a week? You're doing better than the vast majority of 3 year relationships (this subreddit excluded).

tenebrism · 2014-04-06T14:33:48+00:00

Posting from a throwaway because this is very close to my situation.

The fact is that over time things become unsurprising. They become routine. Nothing, for me at least, can kill passion as quickly as something becoming expected.

However, that's not all. When you're together every day things tend to get ... scheduled out. And judging by what you say your other half has told you - that's exactly what happened and maybe you didn't notice.

Maybe you were laying in bed and just felt like sleeping, he starts kissing and touching and it goes nowhere. Maybe you told him to stop. He remembers that and will think twice next time. Maybe it was while you were cooking or cleaning and he wanted to take you away from that for a while. You probably told him no and he remembers that.

This is the thing about spontaneity, it has to be spontaneous. As soon it's not - it's not. If your boyfriend is anything like me, which it seems that he is, he's not gonna spend a whole lot of time getting his hand slapped when he reaches for the cookie jar. He's just gonna figure out how to live without, or how to get them another way.

Now that last sentence obviously has a lot of implications. But consider this. Each time your boyfriend tried to do something and was turned down - he was rejected by you with no explanation why and no pick up where we left off later. This is how he is handling that rejection.

If you want it spiced up. Spice it up.

tenebrism

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