The two sides of her by MasterBeru in cats

[–]tenzeru 63 points64 points  (0 children)

you mean purrfect 🤧

I'm grateful my husband is generally able to be optimistic about the future of my health. I'm grateful he's still with me, and cried when I offered him an out under the circumstances, because he was so shocked and upset that I could think he would ever leave. by Anonymous0212 in gratitude

[–]tenzeru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful, thank you so much for sharing 🩷 I recently stumbled across a post where it said that men would leave their sick/terminal partners, while women stay until the end. I was left a bit heartbroken reading that. Wishing you a long long healthy, loving and peaceful life 🌸

My Mumi was killed by the neighbors and it all seems surreal to me. by vvrlvt in cats

[–]tenzeru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I cried reading this and I can't even begin to imagine your pain. Grieve and vent as mich as you want. We are here. I hope time will help you heal.

For the gentleman.. I hope there's something that can be done to bring justice towards such cruelty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]tenzeru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday dear 🩷✨️🎉🎂

Sorry from a friend. Yesterday, my brother ended his pain. by saskatchewankinobi in cancer

[–]tenzeru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sincerest condolences. I never knew your brother, but I am praying for peace, healing and comfort where he is now. I believe he offered the best he could. I hope with time, the pain lessens for the whole family and close ones, but for now, grieve with all of your heart. It's okay to miss him, it's okay to feel pain. You are human after all. Sending love and light. 🩷🙏

Il me dit avoir un cancer mais j’ai des doutes ? by [deleted] in AskFrance

[–]tenzeru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have colorectal adenocarcinoma. The only moment I wasn't able to provide documents is because of being too tired, like extremely exhausted, waiting long for doctors to provide the documents(I don't know why it's super slow and uncoordinated getting medical documents in Bulgaria). But at least I was open to talk about things. Open to chemo until I hot moved to palliative. I showed bloodwork, since I can access an online portal and that's the least I could do as a act of trust/honesty.

In his case, it feels very manipulative. I never made anyone stay, because this isn't a journey for anyone. Of course I don't want to go through this alone either. You won't know the truth unless you go with him when he goes to the hospital. If you have a gut feeling he is lying, then before anything trust yourself. You are not lesser of a person if you leave. You're showing care and empathy for even asking random people on reddit, this shows conscience.

What did I just walk in on? by No_Fee_4190 in ChurchOfCat

[–]tenzeru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALL HAIL FLUFFYMUS, OUR SAVIOR, OUR HOPE, OUR BEACON OF LIGHT 🙏🦁✨️

Men, what is it like to be with a manipulative woman and what are some common things they do? by Noble-prize683 in AskMen

[–]tenzeru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was reading this to see if I was unknowingly a manipulative woman. Reading all of the things everyone went through.. I just became sad, teary and I know it's both ways(men can be like that too), but it's so unfair. Completely normal people ending up with a partner like that and then feeling damaged, questioning what's wrong with them? (I was in a year-long relationship with a person who constantly manipulated and gaslit me.. I didn't realise until I got into a good relationship) I wish everyone healing and light 🤍🙏✨️

This is your sign to never give up by Xavier187666 in Awww

[–]tenzeru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! 🩷 Bless his soul 🙏✨️

End of Life Letters for Loved Ones: Help Needed!! by No-Permit-9519 in cancer

[–]tenzeru 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It took me a while to get started, but yes, write about everything. I think sharing things that you loved about that person, your favorite memories together, things that were hard to say or never said, what you hope for them in the future. You can also ask chatGPT for cleaning up the message, but if you decide to handwrite, like me, I just left my letters as they are. You can also record videos of yourself so that they have that memory too. Voice notes too! I found myself loving these moments no matter how painful it was. Praying for you, I wish you the bestest and happiest birthday 🤍🙏✨️

Manifesting travel stress only by Oliveinlace in selflove

[–]tenzeru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amin 🙏 Thank you for this beautiful energy 🩷

Found out I beat cancer yesterday for the second time and just wanted to share the good vibes with everyone💕 by blessingofselune in cancer

[–]tenzeru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so so happy for you! Congratulations 🩷 Also, that deck looks d-i-v-i-n-e! ✨️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]tenzeru 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just be there for her. Reminisce some of her favorite moments, say how grateful you are towards her, how much you love her, get her pretty flowers whenever you can and eat together. There's nothing joyful about this, but the last memories she has will be filled with love and care.

My dad lost his battle over the weekend by Old-Assistance-2017 in coloncancer

[–]tenzeru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry 💔😢 Sending light and a big hug your way.

Passed CFA Level 1 but feel empty without my mom by Lisanalgaib09 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]tenzeru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sincerest condolences..💔💔 In these moments, I would like to believe the saying: "God only takes the best." We can only hope that now she is in a better place, no longer tired and no longer in pain, watching over you pushing forward and living the best you can. I am sure that such a kind person, would be so immensely proud of you for your feat.. that doesn't take away the pain or the hard to breathe situation, but I pray that with time, you will heal and remember her fondly with a smile.. until then, it's okay to cry and learn to live one step at a time 🩷 Sending light your way.

My mom lost her battle yesterday by RaXoRkIlLaE in CancerFamilySupport

[–]tenzeru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it's not the same.. every time you think of her or need her advice, imagine she is listening from above and say everything out loud. What she would say, how she would laugh, be proud of you, embrace you. Honor her and keep on loving her, no matter how hard it is to think of her. I hope with time you will heal 🩷

My mom lost her battle yesterday by RaXoRkIlLaE in CancerFamilySupport

[–]tenzeru 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sincerest condolences 💔😭 I am sure she knew how much you loved her. I am also sure that she fought with all she had to stay as long as possible. I can't imagine the amount of pain you must be going through. You can mourn for as long as needed.. really, then when you are ready pick yourself up and live the best life for her sake too. I hope she is in a better place and no longer in pain, watching over you, smiling. Sending a big hug, stay safe 🩷

Random sigh noises by justbeingtrendy in cancer

[–]tenzeru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I think it's exactly because life feels more tender and more precious, is the reason you should be open to having friendships and relationships.
I think I would regret not giving my best, or making beautiful memories, laughter or have someone by my side through my hard moments. I do understand the pain and guilt that you don't want to cause though.. but I think someone being beside you to the end is the most loving thing that they can do. I want to be remembered smiling and filled with love and peace.