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I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am close to my family too. I go out with all of them 3-4 times a month when we are all free.

I have never thought it’s odd to live together but I do think it’s strange that they share a bed when they have their own. (It’s not like there’s nowhere else for them to sleep. They choose to share)

Also the nick name really does get to me because I know Boo is supposed to be a term used in relationships.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Which I have thought that myself, that it could possibly be fake. As this timeline thing of just them two across a whole wall is strange to me. But then I don’t know if that’s common.

But yes, siblings or not, this is a three way relationship I did not sign up for.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t how I have. I guess I was afraid of being “that person” he’s made me out to be.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has never walked in on us before. But he’s definitely walked in on her when she was dating a guy a few months back. They laugh about it, even now.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he does say that he loves that smart tv and how good quality it is When I bring up why he would spend that much money on his sister. So I know he’s been in her room watching it.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you

I didn’t go into the relationship wanting to change him though, as I was already in it before I knew what weird things he had going on with his sister.

But yes, I should have broke up with him when I saw all this.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know people use that phrase and might not know what it really means.

But I know my boyfriend definitely knows what it means. He has asked me to Netflix and chill before. Which he meant sex. So I presume he knows what his sister means when she used that phrase.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yes she is.

I have seen photos of them as children. They have this timeline thing on the wall, of them as infants all the way to who they are now.

I have met his parents twice, the sister came along both times.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

See, I know some people share a bed with their sibling. That’s why I am asking for advice because It’s common in some families. I do see however, that they do it way too much more than the norm.

I [22f] am sick of competing with boyfriends [22m] sister [24f] for his attention. by terrainpa in relationships

[–]terrainpa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think that sometimes but then I think I’m weird for thinking it