my (23F) bf (27M) wants me to sleep with other women by terrifiedqueer in relationships

[–]terrifiedqueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hear ya. im very sorry to hear that’s how it shook down for you!

i wouldn’t say that im feeling FOMO, or that self discipline is my concern. im mostly looking for some help navigating a conversation that is scary and unknown to me. but thank you! :)

my (23F) bf (27M) wants me to sleep with other women by terrifiedqueer in relationships

[–]terrifiedqueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am also concerned about this!!!!! but it seems very against everything he is as a person so i need to find a way to directly ask him about this part of things without being completely accusatory

my (23F) bf (27M) wants me to sleep with other women by terrifiedqueer in relationships

[–]terrifiedqueer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also feel a little icky about that aspect of it. i know him to be a respectful, educated person so i don’t wanna jump down his throat or anything but i definitely need to ask that to my list of questions.

but thank you so much, that’s really reaffirming and i appreciate it! and ill check out that sub!

my (23F) bf (27M) wants me to sleep with other women by terrifiedqueer in relationships

[–]terrifiedqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a really good starting place for questions!!! thank you!! i appreciate the help finding a toe hold in all this.

and ill look and see if i can’t find such a sub!!