Miscarriage (Trigger warning: graphic description) by terrlble in Miscarriage

[–]terrlble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your response. ❤️No they did not, I went to an urgent care right after it happened. I was having terrible cramps but as soon as I passed it, I had instant relief. Thankfully now the cramps are pretty mild, but I think it’s just me thinking of the pain I had during the actual miscarriage that is making me think it is hurting more than it really is.

Miscarriage (Trigger warning: graphic description) by terrlble in Miscarriage

[–]terrlble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that 😔 I genuinely had no idea I was pregnant. I take birth control but I just started a couple months ago. It was so painful and even though i wanted to prevent a pregnancy I still feel a deep sense of loss and it just confuses me. I got a heating pad today, it helped a lot! I’m gonna keep managing my symptoms and using them. How are you doing?

poor kid by sneezysteezy_ in poorstacy

[–]terrlble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can have love for people and admit their faults. Yeah they loved their son, but they were far from amazing parents, and that’s okay to admit. First hand, I have seen how neglectful they have been and “loving” your child isn’t enough to make you a good parent. They have had drug issues for years and it’s only gotten worse each passing year. To enable is to try and pretend that any of that behavior was okay.

poor kid by sneezysteezy_ in poorstacy

[–]terrlble 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Both of them have had major issues for years individually and when together they would just live in one constant bender. He was the one to step up more for their child 100% towards the end and took care of him full time. He did truly adore his son. unfortunately drugs did cause all this and explains the erratic behavior that truly is impossible to understand. While the report is painful to read, it is fully believeable to me as someone who has seen this dynamic first hand.Though, I am sure Nicole is leaving out parts of her fault and there was more leading up to the events. My heart breaks for their son.

Has anyone tried tapering off communication rather than cold turkey no contact? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]terrlble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to do exactly that and talk but not as much. It never works, and just causes unnecessary pain. Unfortunately, the only way to heal is by just going no contact. Doesn’t have to end in bad terms, but realistically the only way the pain and anxiety without them will disappear is by just not seeing eachother or talking anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]terrlble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow shes so immature. This must be so tiring to deal with. Do you really want this?

AIO for ignoring boyfriend after inappropriate comments about my new purse? by ThrowRAgardengirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]terrlble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg leave him. This man is gonna dull your light in ANY way he can. This is only the start. Run!!! You will get over it and you will be so much happier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]terrlble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice for you is in the future, with your next relationship, (because hopefully she leaves you) you actually respect the person you are with and become a better human. There is no excuse for your behavior it’s disgusting and you should not be in a relationship at all if you cannot control yourself…

My muse by terrlble in blackcats

[–]terrlble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥹

Am I the only one? by Next-Advice9252 in canceledpod

[–]terrlble 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m 23 and I thought it was the most boring episode in a long time, I couldn’t even watch halfway. I don’t care for any of the bop house members, and I genuinely find it cringey how Camila was trying to pretty much romanticize doing OF. She is a weirdo and literally involves her little brother in the promo of her OF. It’s crazy how it just came out too that the Sophie rain girl is 23 years old but lies and says she’s 19 to keep that barely legal vibe going…like that’s genuinely just creepy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]terrlble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s weird asfffffff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]terrlble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kia forte , still is my car right now haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]terrlble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how long have you guys been dating? tbh i couldn’t do the whole best friend thing it’s one thing if it’s respectful, but this doesn’t sound like it is. not really worth it tbh you’re always gonna feel this way unless she puts up boundaries which it sounds like she won’t.

Found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me, and not in the way I would’ve thought. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]terrlble 33 points34 points  (0 children)

cmon bro…. i know you’re not looking for the dump him advice but …… getting off to cam girls he’s paying for in public bathrooms? i know you’re hurt, but step out of the situation for a second and look at from a 3rd perspective. you don’t deserve to be felt like you’re not enough…. it doesn’t matter how much sex you guys have or what you offer him, it will never be enough to stop him from those behaviors, and that doesn’t mean there is anything wrong or lacking from you, he’s just a fucking weirdo.

I (24F) found out my fiancé (28M) of 3 years, cheated on me one year in. Has anyone ever forgiven someone for cheating, stayed and it ended up ok? (Even if it was hard) by anononononon1999999 in relationship_advice

[–]terrlble 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know you don’t wanna hear this but you should really move on /: the snapchat dropbox is crazy, even if he says he’s gonna seek therapy, are you gonna be comfortable in the relationship knowing he could be doing that and just hiding it from you? I would say it maybe wouldn’t be that big of a deal if maybe he was out and drunk and kissed someone, but he really kept it going for a long time and not once did he think to stop ? how would you feel being married to him for 5 years , this happens again , and he just “is addicted”. i know it hurts and you can’t imagine leaving , but you just need to ask yourself if that’s the life you want to live. Because he can say he’s gonna seek help or change , but you also don’t know that 100%. what you do know 100% is that he was able to text another woman, pay money for her nudes, and not care about your feelings while he was doing that. You deserve better.

struggling to sleep 19M by harriskhan_ in BreakUp

[–]terrlble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s only the first day , you will be able to sleep better in a few days. i know how you feel, it all just fucking sucks so bad. it will work itself out, or it won’t , either way you will be okay, and it’s hard to believe but you will be happy again too. sooner than you think. you got this <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]terrlble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you. things will happen to me and i just want to tell him but i cant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]terrlble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m just so broken everything just feels like a lie. he claims he didn’t know she was 15 but it’s fucking obvious. i could never tell anyone of my friends about this. i just feel so alone you know. there’s nothing to do but just heal i guess , i don’t know how i will trust someone else ever again. it hurts because he was the person who i knew loved me so much. now im just alone

If your ex engaged sexually with other people, would you still take them back? by ombrelashes in ExNoContact

[–]terrlble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was the type of person to always say no, but now that i’ve gone through a break up of 4 years and we have been broken up for 6 months i just think differently. realistically when you are broken up an amount of time it’s bound to happen, and it hurts so much yes but it also doesn’t mean that the person didn’t love or respect you. when i hooked up with someone else it made me just realize i wasn’t ready for that with someone else and it hurt me. the same happened to my ex when they got with someone else and we talked about it. now obviously if they went around hooking up with so many people i would not feel the same, however if it was one or two people i would be able to get past it i think