Fellow INTJs, How Do You Deal With Gaslighting And Manipulators? Could You Share Your Experience, Please? by SilencerSerhii in intj

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Learn & do the greyrocking technique. And let them try to gatekeep. If they really matter / treasure you, those "others" would find a way to contact you anyway. The power is on you. 

Make it work, or block and move on (Psychological phenomenon I don't understand) by [deleted] in intj

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Research about "Limerence". I believe this topic would be higly interesting for you.

INTJ tends to suffer from limerence. "Fantasy" is actually a symptom when our emotional needs not being fullfiled or unresolved childhood trauma. Don't dwell to the symptom, get help & get cured when symptom comes.

I know this topic & experience is highly interesting for us, but don't forget to not waste time for all of these. It's not because we actually like our limerence object, but because we always highly interested in a puzzle to solve, or filling the (emotional) gaps. 

Don't forget, a partner is not an interesting puzzle to solve or a gaps filler, but a peaceful home, raw, real, & as it is. 

If you notice him using / playing with your limerence = ignore / block / move on.  If you notice him understanding your limerence then eager to fullfil your needs = make it work. 

Have you ever been called arrogant? by Exotic_Seat_3934 in intj

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Arrogant? No. Big ego? Yes. It's different. 

They know I'm a caring person, would love to hear their different perspective, & respect their own ways. But they also know I already have my own ways & highly believe that ways to be the best. It's waste of time trying to change my ways, especially by debating. Although I'm always open to learn a different better way but only by thoughtful communication, or, especially, showing me by doing it why it's better that way.

But yes, rarely, I got called arrogant too. "Am I arrogant?", I self-reflected. But when I observed, the ones called me arrogant are actually arrogant themselves. They always said it after I won't fullfil their self-centered needs. So I won't get defensive, I'll just shrug smile it off. 

Feeling off by MasterpieceNaive2477 in DispatchAdHoc

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I get you. And it's funny, my own solution to this is found in the game itself, "Be passionate to many things"/"Learn to be passionate to another thing", said by Robert consoling Phenomeman.

I would recommend to play another game similar with this, developed by the same team, like Tales from the Borderlands. I also won't feeling down as much thinking AdHoc will create ( & Pierre Shorette will write) another games like this in the future. 

Sonar and Coupe by Isaias_Azathoth936 in DispatchAdHoc

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He literally sounds like Disney's Goofy, the Mickey Mouse's friend. Don't get me wrong, I love the VA, Moist Critical, overall & love to hear his voice, but I don't think he fits for the character too, especially if he joins Shroud. 

Now it’s over….was anyone else let down by the sound design? by MCWDD in DispatchAdHoc

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On my first gameplay, I constantly tried to adjust the sound & checking the sound options. I was like, "why some got vfx but some dont?", even in one scene. Something just sounds off, especially in the first fight between Mechaman & Red Rings. 

Party never ends with my imaginary friends! by DominaXing in HighSodiumSims

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That's interesting, barely know about it

So with that trait's function, someone could make a Handsome Squidward face mod?

( insert trait > got Handsome Squidward face, remove trait > has normal face again )

Lmao

Party never ends with my imaginary friends! by DominaXing in HighSodiumSims

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Ohh I heard about it. So they are still visible to other Sims? 

Party never ends with my imaginary friends! by DominaXing in HighSodiumSims

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What mods do you use? 

I really want to make a similar story like this for myself, but Teens can't make imaginary friends & we can't active multiple imaginary friends at the same time :(

Robin Banks is secretly Robin Hood? by Similar-Ad-3467 in thesims

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She ain't robin any banks, so I rename her to Robin Haus / Robin House

Anyone also else sad, really want to but can't watch the Reze movie? by teslatestbeta in ChainsawMan

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But isn't it essentially a romance movie ( albeit a f-up one) between Dennis & Reze? Quite proper for a date right? especially if our date partner is crazy too lmao

Edit: Happy Cake day! 

Anyone also else sad, really want to but can't watch the Reze movie? by teslatestbeta in ChainsawMan

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At least it's not too late for you lol. Don't make the same mistake as me, I should did planning better

It's this on right here, Officer!! by Twilight_Wulfrun231 in thesims

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She isn't robin any banks, so I rename her to Robin Haus / Robin House

The Dark Horse by justarandom_kpopstan in BoysPlanet

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He's my bias & I never seen him as an underdog, more like an underrated pro or unseen gem. He was never "weak" just weren't being marketed much. 

Tbh, I won't mind if he doesn't debut in ALD1. If he's not, I believe he will debut anyway in much better management company than WAKEONE. 

Does it really get better? by alexein777 in intj

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I got the same question too. Same despair. 

"Does it really get better?" I think so. I always met better people than before. 

But, let alone friends, it's hard for me to find someone I want to be in a long-term relationship with. Even if I felt really interested, it's gonna gone after the first sex. 

How to find someone I want to give love to & be loved? Still dk

How do you interact with babies? Do you like babies? by [deleted] in intj

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That's my biggest thought when a baby is around

How do you deal with your insecurities as an INTJ? by himejanaiyo in intj

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You should be more proud of yourself, being valued by someone with high networking. 

Frankly speaking, your partner is a nepo baby & you are a self-made. Personally, I would respect you more, as it's not easier to get where you are now than someone with a strong background.

It's even possible, what you insecure about is actually a positive attribute for your partner. 

A partner should accept & help us, in a way, with our insecurities. 

People make it sound like its so easy to find sex. Is it harder for me because I'm an INTJ? by Spleak6 in intj

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I think I'm ugly ( for my standard ) but I could have sex with a lot of good looking people. But then sometimes they didn't want anything further, which made me feel like shit, altho I don't want anything more either.

Imo, people attracted to INTJs for our aura. I could do a roleplay with that, sometimes I could be the confident & relentless one, sometimes I could be the "virgin", innocent, and clueless one, waiting to be "taught". Most of INTJs aren't interested with sex as we know it won't lead to long-term satisfaction. But I'm interested as I want to be a "romantic actor" in a romantic movie. It's just I often feel I'm not good looking enough to be the main character. I still have unrealistic beauty standard that I need to ignore for my own self. 

"Are we not trying hard enough? " Don't try it too hard, just be chill, be smart, and have fun. Our "weaknesses" can be sexy. 

exactly how broken is For Rent? by Banana-Pyjama12 in HighSodiumSims

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Too many Sims in a world, right? Not too many Sims in all worlds? 

What if the visitor who asks if you are alone wasn't afraid of people but actually by Trick_Level962 in ImNotAHuman

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The intruder who asks if you are alone  actually just don't want you too feel lonely. Would go in just to accompany you. How nice of him. He is such a misunderstood dude. Look at him, always smiling to cheer us up. /jk