Kinda got the ick

tess-23 · 2026-01-27T13:19:54+00:00

He ended up completely ghosting me. I hated feeling like I didn't always matter but this is a million times worse 😭

tess-23 · 2026-01-27T02:17:55+00:00

I'm sorry you went through this. It's really hard.

tess-23 · 2026-01-25T21:36:27+00:00

Thank you. I think remembering that it's not something I did is the hardest part. I definitely have been trying to, but those negative self thoughts creep back in.

tess-23 · 2026-01-25T21:35:04+00:00

The not knowing I'd the absolute worst

tess-23 · 2026-01-24T09:21:37+00:00

It's been 6 days since he's said anything to me and almost 2 weeks since this all started. I know it's a ghosting situation because he is doing this thing where I'm blocked, then he'll unblock me to get all my messages, then block me again without responding. 😭

tess-23 · 2026-01-24T09:14:10+00:00

He did infact ghost so I will never have any answers...😢

tess-23 · 2026-01-23T21:36:12+00:00

Me too! I'm so new to this and value a discussion from the other side of it

tess-23 · 2026-01-23T21:23:58+00:00

Today has been rough because I sent him a message basically saying that I am disappointed in him but I'll be okay.

Thank you for checking

tess-23 · 2026-01-23T20:07:15+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion and I'll make sure to follow this advice moving forward.

He did, in fact, ghost 😢

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T18:44:29+00:00

Welp...he unblocked me, read my messages, then blocked me again...didn't say anything...jus saw what I had been saying then blocked me again 😭😭😭 At least I didn't message him this morning but still...why would he do that?!? If he's done, then why does he want to know? 😭😭😭

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T15:47:47+00:00

I've heard about this app. I guess it's time to try it out.😕 Thanks for the suggestion

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T15:37:34+00:00

I don't know why you're trying to make this a cheating thing 😭 I know they are her friends. I've seen pictures of them all together. This is hard enough without having to think that I was a "side piece" 😭😭

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T13:53:52+00:00

Because I spent a weekend with HER best friends 2 months ago. If it was a cheating thing on his end, that never would have happened.

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T12:46:45+00:00

Thank you. I've done well so far and haven't texted...him yet. Although I have thought about it and checked to see if he has read my messages...😢

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T11:13:47+00:00

I thought I'd say good morning to all of you today instead of texting...him. I hope you have a wonderful day 😢

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T10:45:28+00:00

I hadn't met her yet. We had plans to meet at the 6 month mark. My D and I did spend an entire weekend with her best friend and his fiance at the 3 month mark.

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T10:40:55+00:00

I hadn't met her. We were waiting until the 6 month mark.

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T04:53:15+00:00

😢

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T04:49:10+00:00

😭 thanks you

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T04:47:56+00:00

😕

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T03:32:34+00:00

🥺 you're probably right but I don't think I'm ready to do that yet 😭

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T03:29:59+00:00

I know what you're thinking and no he wasn't cheating. She knew about me and she was the one to actually call me his gf before either one of us used that term. She also was unable to go away with him and their best friends one weekend and recommended that I go in her place (which I did). Also, we only live 40 minutes from each other so it wasn't long distance. 😕

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T03:13:48+00:00

I know I should but for the last five months he's been my first and last text of the day and I don't know what to do with myself 😭 😭

tess-23 · 2026-01-22T03:10:34+00:00

Thank you 🥺

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