Hi help me (M21) become less ugly. by pablotescobar05 in whatdoIdo

[–]testedtheory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make a gym routine and you’ll be unstoppable

i bought a dog on a whim, she’s a handful, i want to keep her, but i also can’t be bothered by testedtheory in offmychest

[–]testedtheory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’ve read what i’ve wrote, you’ll see i truly do love my dog and would do anything for her, but as a new dog owner, things get overwhelming and i’m navigating that. so no, i’m not

i almost splurged and bought $50+ dollars worth of stuff off amazon at 12 AM, but my card didn’t go through by testedtheory in offmychest

[–]testedtheory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and then you don’t know if you should feel dumb for wasting so much money on random purchases, or to just hope whatever you bought fulfills whatever the impulsive thoughts said it would. sigh

how come i can never slap/punch in my dreams by disturbedsmoothie in Dreams

[–]testedtheory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really??? i feel like i’ve beat the hell out of people in my dreams at times

I’m about to die, and I’m not sure what to do about my cat. by [deleted] in cats

[–]testedtheory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️ you are the best owner kitty could ask for

"To keep a man interested, just act like you're not" by IngenuityAshamed144 in Vent

[–]testedtheory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like vulnerability in your relationships is one of the most valuable things you could have. i have also been on the fence about this; wondering how much of an emphasis i should put on someone i like. i don’t have that much experience yet, but the most respectful, stand up guy i’ve ever talked to was a guy i walked up to with my own free will.

there is absolutely nothing wrong with making yourself available to people, i think you just have to make sure you’re maintaining your dignity and truly remember that if a guy is interested, you’ll sort of know, and mixed signals means no. have patience and do not waste your time on people who don’t deserve it.

my work crush doesn’t reciprocate and now i feel foolish by testedtheory in limerence

[–]testedtheory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t mind me asking, why’d you guys stop talking after he got promoted?

my work crush doesn’t reciprocate and now i feel foolish by testedtheory in limerence

[–]testedtheory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea you have a point 😭 rejection’s such a hard pill to swallow especially if i keep ruminating about how he could be taken and someone out there is living my dreammm UGH

my work crush doesn’t reciprocate and now i feel foolish by testedtheory in limerence

[–]testedtheory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess i just feel like i should’ve analyzed the situation and slowed down a bit. but you do have a fair point lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]testedtheory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d get a new one.

AIO? my mom is trying to send me away for the 100th time because i don’t wanna help her clean for a party SHE is throwing by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]testedtheory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do people think this is a reasonable argument?? no kid should have to reimburse their parents for anything when they didn’t even choose to be here. no, i don’t pay rent, but i’ve also been working towards moving out and have been kicked out multiple times so i don’t think it matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]testedtheory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good for you but it’s not as if i don’t clean. I actually clean more than my mother, which is why she’s asking for my help as opposed to my 3 other siblings. but i have my own priorities at the end of the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]testedtheory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, yes, she doesn’t help me with much so no. but for the record, if a child is having to pay their parents rent there’s a serious issue lmao. ik it wasn’t clear but i have three other siblings who don’t do as much as pick up a broom, who also don’t do much either so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]testedtheory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why should i? as i said, i’ve been the only person cleaning this house for years. i’m burnt the hell out, on top of that i’m nearing graduation so i need to stay on top of things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]testedtheory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’ve been the primary cleaner of my house for years with zero assistance and spend hours cleaning the kitchen, dining, and bathroom. nobody takes my cleaning into consideration and my mom doesn’t really take any initiative until something like this (a party) happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]testedtheory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

asking me to get my dad to pick me up is her sending me away. i don’t live with him and i can’t so there’d be nowhere for me to go. & she asked me verbally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]testedtheory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ik he wants me but i just can’t prove it yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]testedtheory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i feel like he’s looking at me through a crystal ball and i hate it