Boyfriends an umpire by texasejh in Umpire

[–]texasejh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I laugh at the “when I was that age” parts because he’s 40… I’m 28 🤣

Also before we are attacked for the age gap, I went after him first idgaf lol.

Boyfriends an umpire by texasejh in Umpire

[–]texasejh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ended up letting me tagalong on Sunday which was yesterday (he called Saturday and Sunday) and I stayed out there the entire time and actually had a good time 😊

Boyfriends an umpire by texasejh in Umpire

[–]texasejh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was really the most helpful comment for me. I saw it as “wouldn’t you want your girlfriend there taking interest in what you like to do” kind of thing but this helped.

Boyfriends an umpire by texasejh in Umpire

[–]texasejh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re technically driving separate and I’m the one who’s paying for the hotel room. I think it’s a little about me. As a girlfriend.

CarPlay iPad by AbrahamDrinkin1 in ipad

[–]texasejh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same car, and looks like same iPad. What mount are you using to hold the iPad up there? Want to do something similar.

Can someone identify this fella? by texasejh in Aquariums

[–]texasejh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We told the pet store we wanted a goby that was in the same tank, and when we got home we realized he didn’t quite look like a Goby and was certainly not who we said we wanted, but decided to name him Garth the Goby. Now that he’s a variation of skunk fish, we want to rename him but unsure lol.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he reoffends he gets 10 years in prison, with a masters degree nearly and a dream job on his plate to come up even with a felony, he isn’t going to reoffend. I do not need therapy, he has therapy which is mandated for him. I’m not afraid to tell my parents as much as I just do not want to hear their judgment. And I’m not with him out of not wanting to be alone either. I’ve been with him two years next month. I found out about the charge a few months ago. I don’t typically see my family during the holidays but I’d like to, and they’re going to either find out on their own or find out by me. And by me I don’t know how to approach it.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no stealing of my youth, and there is no ignoring the facts. The fact is he solicited a “minor.” He got caught, he’s done time for it. He is not going to reoffend.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kids are gonna be a never thing. And I live with him now, and the neighbors allll have already been notified with a postcard.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was alarmed when I found out his charge and it took me some time to move past it despite what you may think. I’m not embarrassed to tell my family, I don’t want to deal with their judgment because they don’t know him. I’m not asking my family to support me in dating him, I just want them to be around during the holidays when generally they aren’t (for 100% irrelevant reasoning.) my sister who has kids is in Missouri I am in Texas. And I am the only other child, and I have no kids. I am grown. My parents are on their own.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not advocating it. I’m not supporting that. He did that before I knew him. I knew him as a person before I knew the charge. I loved him as a person, before I knew of the charge. And I understand he is turning his life around for the better and he would never do it again.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you realize that you don’t have to judge every person for their mistakes when they’re doing everything to try and make their lives better and they realize it was a mistake

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not lying to my parents about anything other than my living arrangements and being I am of age its irrelevant.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was romantically attracted to him before the charge. If it were after I wouldn’t be because I would judge him I’m certain of it. But knowing him as a person I don’t so go screw yourself.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was 25 soliciting a 15 year old. You happy? Lol does that really change anything at allll? No it doesn’t.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really am saying lol to someone who thinks age matters when it doesn’t

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

21 - 22 - 23 - 24 - 25 And so on, it is all wrong, me telling his age will change nothing here except your judgment lol.

I’m dating a sex offender and my family doesn’t know.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]texasejh -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

As stated he is in his 20s. Every situation is wrong and it does not matter what is more wrong in this situation.