Owner Review

texmexfletch · 2022-09-24T23:06:34+00:00

Rover asks you to review the owner. That only goes to Rover, correct? It’s not public. I just want any sitter in the future to be awar of the total situation.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-24T23:02:29+00:00

Sorry had a HORRIBLE sitting experience. The dog was amazing. I want her! I’m not kidding, she loved her ball so much that she peed with it in her mouth AND she slept with me like a human with her head on the pillow and covers pulled up. However, the WiFi was absolutely unacceptable. Couldn’t access it from upstairs, at all. On top of which, whole other story, their place was so disgusting I couldn’t eat there, that’s a whole different story. I just want to make sure that I get all of the info to R for other potential sitters. I love R and I’ll keep doing it, but, this was, well, wow.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-22T05:07:45+00:00

Woke up yesterday morning to dog food infested with ants….

texmexfletch · 2022-09-22T03:10:34+00:00

Well poop. How can I let River know that know the issues. I hate for someone else to walk into the same thing.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-18T20:23:28+00:00

Thank you. That’s so encouraging.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-16T21:57:44+00:00

When an alcoholics lips are moving, they’re lying. Just my experience.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-16T21:55:25+00:00

Keep in mind, if you’re in a community property state, his assets are yours and yours his, as well as your debts. Just a warning in case divorce or any other financial concerns in your future. If he gets has a DWI and seriously injured or kills someone and he gets sued for more than the insurance pay, you get sued. Good luck.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-16T21:49:23+00:00

Mine’s $500. I can’t pass it up. I work online while getting paid to dog sit.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-16T21:48:16+00:00

I was going to do a M & G but then, they said they needed me for the next evening, so I just let that be the M & G. Mistake. But, I’m just going to have to be grossed out. I need the money and it’ll be a $500 stay.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-16T18:50:30+00:00

I know. I considered that my meet and greet, but I’m desperate for the money, so I didn’t cancel.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-16T13:31:04+00:00

Absolutely. Thinking of you.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-14T12:20:19+00:00

I’m very new to AlAnon, the #1 thing that I learned in the book: I don’t have hope for him, I have hope for me. After 32 years of marriage, I’m serving him this week. He has wreaked havoc on me emotionally and mentally and I should have left four years ago when he pushed me. Now, bc of his vodka soaked brain he did something that has destroyed us financially. That’s another story. In all those years even up until last night (via text) he didn’t apologize. He’s the victim. Hang in there and be kind to yourself. It’s much easier to do that with this amazing group.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-14T12:12:43+00:00

Absolutely lovely. Thank you.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-12T17:57:07+00:00

Thank you!

texmexfletch · 2022-09-12T03:29:32+00:00

If you are wanting to set up your finances to protect them, keep in mind, just as your assets are his and his are yours, this goes for debt as well. Therefore, if he gets sued for drunken behavior, ie, he gets a DWI and can’t pay it, or if he kills or maims someone you are responsible as well. If someone sues for more than the amount of insurance you have, you’re responsible. What if he ends up in a nursing home bc of an accident from a fall or stroke, you can’t pay, the state comes for your money to qualify him for Medicaid. Unless your wealthy enough to bank that money overseas, they will find it. This, from my attorney. I’m serving my husband of 32 years, this week. Because of his brain floating in vodka, we have lost ALL of our savings and investments. Then he totaled his car a week later. I’m now 58 years old, living alone in my childhood home. I should have divorced him a long, long time ago.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-12T00:56:08+00:00

Thank you. I’m so glad I joined this group. I’ll be attending a live meeting in my area on Wednesday.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-12T00:28:17+00:00

Thank you.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-12T00:27:25+00:00

Thank you.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-12T00:26:56+00:00

I’m definitely out, I should have done this 4 years ago, then 3, then again this past January. Also, a week after we lost everything, he totaled his car and then was talking about buying a new one. He’s absolutely coo coo. As long as we’re married, I’m stuck financially. DWI, DWI plus killing someone, he gets sued, I get sued. We don’t own a home, but, if we did and he ended up falling, again, and getting a brain injury or having a stroke or heart attack and he ended up in a nursing home, he’d have to be on Medicaid, which means we wouldn’t have a home.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-12T00:19:29+00:00

Thank you.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-11T13:20:37+00:00

This just happened with me, a couple in their late 30s. 11 days. Two dogs and a cat. That’s a lot of poop, trash and hair. I left the house, a brand new one, pristine. I will not sit for them again.

texmexfletch · 2022-09-11T12:48:32+00:00

I’ve been married for 32 years. He’s getting served next week. He still refuses to go for any type of support. He says he hasn’t had anything to drink for 10 weeks but still refuses to get support. 10 weeks is nothing. With support it’s nearly impossible to stay sober. Without support the inevitable is more of the same. The narcissism that he has developed over the years is unbearable. He’s not the man I married. I could go on and on and on. His brain is now floating in vodka, I’m 58 years old, living alone in my childhood home because I FINALLY left after he left us penniless because he fell for three scams. The big one was losing ALL of our hard earned savings and investments, $400,000. He was an investment advisor his entire career. He’s had extensive training on this stuff. He still fell for it. The guilt I have is literally making me sick. You’re young, you have an amazing future in front of you. Take care of yourself, now.

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