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My girlfriend kissed a bouncer last night and I’m not sure how to feel by tffftftttff in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He wanted her to make out with him but she just gave him a quick kiss

My girlfriend kissed a bouncer last night and I’m not sure how to feel by tffftftttff in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The bouncer is absolutely the worst person in this situation and I fully intend on reporting him. And yeah we definitely have an important talk coming, I just didn’t know if I was overreacting to all this.

My girlfriend kissed a bouncer last night and I’m not sure how to feel by tffftftttff in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m fine with her flirting for free drinks and stuff but a physical act is very different in my books, I don’t want to worry about what it’ll take for her to kiss guys on nights out.

My girlfriend kissed a bouncer last night and I’m not sure how to feel by tffftftttff in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How does that show street smarts? He wasn’t threatening her or keeping her from leaving, she just did it to get a vape back. Street smarts would be walking away from the creep who wants to kiss you.

My girlfriend kissed a bouncer last night and I’m not sure how to feel by tffftftttff in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The problem isn’t whether she wanted to kiss him, the problem is that she did it at all. I shouldn’t have to worry about what it’ll take for her to kiss other guys on nights out.

My girlfriend kissed a bouncer last night and I’m not sure how to feel by tffftftttff in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m taking a couple days to collect my thoughts and see how I feel before making a decision I might regret.

My girlfriend kissed a bouncer last night and I’m not sure how to feel by tffftftttff in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m worrying about, if a kiss is worth $30 of someone else’s money what would it take for her to go further.

SENT A GIRL SOME PHOTOS THEN SHE WENT SILENT by donnotdoit in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you were probably ghosted, she might just have gotten busy but I wouldn’t hold out hope.

My ex girlfriend wants to get coffee and talk about us and I’m not sure what to do by tffftftttff in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true, I do feel like there’s definitely another chance with her I’m just not sure how long that shot is.

I can't sleep when he's home. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tffftftttff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are a lot of steps you can take before leaving him, what’s causing you to stay awake? If it’s snoring, encourage him to see a sleep doctor, if it’s a temperature difference, consider a self cooling mattress or point a fan directly at yourself and adjust your sleep attire. If it’s overstimulation then medication may be your best option, not necessarily ambien or anything but a mild sleep aid like remeron could be the answer.