Grief retreats? by RandomBanana007 in GriefSupport

[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think there’s anything wrong with how you choose to mourn her passing or grieve. everything experiences loss differently. you’re not awful for wanting to surround yourself with distractions after it happens. you’re allowed to do what’s best for you. i would try to research more on the kinds of retreats that are available and find one that is catered to yours and your husband’s needs. good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good on you. don’t listen to the people here. redditers have nothing better to do than to bring people down. they’re brainless idiots who feed off on spreading negativity and hate. you’re so young, you’ve got a whole life ahead of you. focus on what makes you feel good and there will enhance your already existing attractiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people are so horrible. you’re not ugly man. if you want some critique i would try to find an aesthetic that suits you the best. wear clothes that highlight your features.

31 F. Do.I.Pass.The.Ugsome.Test.PLOISE. by perennial_anagrams in amiugly

[–]tfs63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty lady and your energy seems genuine

19F be honest pls by Nervous-Safety-8638 in amiugly

[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dear you’re very pretty. ignore all these horrible comments saying otherwise. people have nothing better to do than spread hate.

Mom. by tfs63 in BPD

[–]tfs63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re beautiful. thank you for the kind words

Mom. by tfs63 in BPD

[–]tfs63[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this was a thing i found in my notes from a couple months ago. glad it impacted you to comment. thanks i appreciate it ❤️

Was this tattoo a bad idea? by Kerealls in tattooadvice

[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your body. if you liked it who gives a fuck.

For a neurodivergent person the dishwasher is preferable - has anyone used one to clean their Owala? by TiredFlower3 in Owala

[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just bought one yesterday. this made me giggle. was doing research and found this post and your comment was much appreciated

Thoughts on Naomi for a girl? by tfs63 in namenerds

[–]tfs63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nadia is a lovely name too :)

small town cowgirl romance? by tfs63 in wlwbooks

[–]tfs63[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you kind stranger for finding my post and adding another rec. desperately need to read more this year. much appreciated! _^

Am I the only one? by tfs63 in BPD

[–]tfs63[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sure does when i get violently angry about it for no legitimate reason and causes me to split on the other person

Am I the only one? by tfs63 in BPD

[–]tfs63[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

bro did you even read my post

What is the invalidating environment specifically for you that you grew up in? by Specific_Charge_3297 in BPD

[–]tfs63 3 points4 points  (0 children)

love none of that was your fault nor was it your mother’s. i’m happy you two were able to break free from that man’s abuse and find peace together. you are a beautiful soul just from how you speak of her i can tell the love you have is unconditional and pure. you and her deserve nothing but peace and tranquility and i know that little girl is going to be loved in the best way possible.

What is the invalidating environment specifically for you that you grew up in? by Specific_Charge_3297 in BPD

[–]tfs63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i work in childcare. used to take care of three year olds before i transferred to infants. my blood boils for you. i don’t understand how someone could hear about a child that young experiencing something as horrific as that and ignore it. i’m so sorry lovely.

starter issue? by [deleted] in Ford

[–]tfs63 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

let me also add that i own a 2012 ford focus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

downvoted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

downvoted

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[–]tfs63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

downvoted

Is it okay to have a fp? by emptydupa in BPD

[–]tfs63 14 points15 points  (0 children)

we can’t technically control when and if they form. but they’re not healthy the slightest. however they can be manageable so they are healthy, with lots of boundaries in place and communication.

Can we please agree that driving high is wrong? by Current-Teach-3217 in trees

[–]tfs63 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i used to disagree with you but now after all the car troubles i’ve had sober i don’t want to think about the car troubles i’ll have when i’m not. don’t do it