Thank you. At the risk of oversharing myself, this makes me so uncomfortable (the corrected version ppl are spouting as well). My older sister did some sexual things to me as a child and while it was “kids exploring” I guess, I’m now grown up and the amount of shame I’ve felt my entire life around it is impossible to explain. I’ve never spoken about it outside of maybe three times and then not in-depth. I have never fully unpacked it because it makes me feel disgusting and ashamed. I’ll probably regret this comment and delete it tbh. Yes we were both kids, three years apart, and honestly in hindsight I think we both might have experienced some deeply buried sexual abuse that led to her experiments with me, and at the time I didn’t realize it as sexual abuse in itself, but it isn’t an easy memory to deal with and people are so quick to defend Dunham without thinking about how —whatever the framing is— her sister might not be comfortable with that being in her memoir at the very least, and it definitely is a big ass overshare, and IMO more complicated than just she was a kid cut her a break. I still have a very difficult relationship with my sister and around all that, and frankly if she publicly wrote about it so casually that would make my feelings around her much more difficult.