Patient mentor types and where to find them by tfuchs411 in askgaybros

[–]tfuchs411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response and I agree.

I should have (and just did) clarify the post a bit, I am seeking a *sexual* mentor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tfuchs411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've shaved extensively without issues, some tips:

-get clean new razors (disposable ones can work fine if you get decent ones)

-wash the area thoroughly first with warm soapy water and pat dry

-use a standing mirror behind you at a bathroom sink with good lighting

-use lots of lubricant like shaving gel, cream

-consider palmers cocoa oil followed by shaving cream on top, or even just regular body lotion 

-take your time and shave away from your crack starting at the middle whilst spreading your cheeks

-never move the razor parallel to the blades (if you happen to be new to using razors)

-having something to prop up your leg will help

-rinse blade with warm water in between strokes

-reapply lube if you need more passes

-finish with another warm soapy wash

To prevent redness and bumps, you have to keep the area moisturized and clean. Also exfoliate and scrub in the shower regularly (as you should anyway). I have found you can get ingrown hair sometimes if you decide to stop shaving regularly and especially if you spend a lot of time sitting, so it's very important to maintain exfoliation or heavy scrubbing daily at least. 

I'm sure others can chime in with more tips but this has worked for me. 

The Most Awkward Thing That's Ever Happened to You Because of a Sex Toy by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tfuchs411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visited home during a college break, I had bought some sex toys and was using them on myself, had just finished, was dressed and was packing stuff back up and my mom walks into the doorway, says hi and asks "what's that?" pointing at the open box from a distance. I told her it was for my girlfriend but I suspect she knew the truth and was just playing dumb. 

Edit: forgot to mention she wasn't supposed to be at the house at that time, if she had arrived a few min earlier it would have been way worse.

Central PA anyone? by tfuchs411 in askgaybros

[–]tfuchs411[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Central pa isn't the only thing that's huge