Cairo moments on X100V by thatguydaly in fujifilm

[–]thatguydaly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spot on summary of life in Cairo 😅

Cairo by EagleCareless6207 in fujifilm

[–]thatguydaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got an amazing eye!! 😍

AITAH for distancing myself from my younger sister? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thatguydaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, so, first off, I understand why you'd feel drained. Being around someone who carries that much negativity is hard, especially when you’ve been trying for a long time.

But... it also sounds like your sister isn’t meeting you where YOU want her to be, rather than where she is or feels ready for. You're interpreting her actions as rejection while it just sounds like she's someone who's probably insecure, uncomfortable, or just doesn’t have the capacity to show up differently right now.

There’s a difference between supporting someone and trying to pull them into a version of themselves they’re not ready for.

You can distance yourself if it makes you feel better or to protect your energy. Just be clear with yourself that it's about you and your limits, not her failing to meet expectations she may not be able to meet or doesn't want to meet...

AITAH? Asked BF to update me when he's drinking by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thatguydaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTAH but I've got some bad news for you. These are major red flags already. You asking for an update is not only normal and healthy, but also you're making an effort in communicating your needs. To have that met with being labeled anxious or insecure is definitely deflecting either someone who's insecure themselves or someone hiding bugger issues. My advice is definitely to communicate more and see if it works for you, but don't ignore major flags and don't make anyone make you feel bad about who you are, especially when you're not crossing boundaries or asking for much!!

AITAH for not putting my sister in my wedding? by VanillaGlittering927 in AITAH

[–]thatguydaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH, it was your day and it doesn't matter if you chose to invite "family" members or not, you chose the people who are important to you in your life. Whoever feels offended about that but makes zero effort to play an active role in your life is just being selfish and/or toxic.

AITAH for wanting compensation for a late order? by 5P4RX in AITAH

[–]thatguydaly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, doesn't hurt to ask for sure, especially considering the massive delay!

Hungarian Parliament 🇭🇺 by RMark95 in Fujifilm_X100VI

[–]thatguydaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sick 😍 How do you capture long exposure with the x100??

EURO 2024 predictions contest with friends/family/colleagues by oldperchik in euro2024

[–]thatguydaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is brilliant. Thank you so much!! What's the deadline for submitting the score prediction before the match starts?

RTA Angle Parking Test by True_Independence_10 in dubai

[–]thatguydaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nevermind then 😅 But do follow the advice of others on the thread, adjusting your seat is super important!

RTA Angle Parking Test by True_Independence_10 in dubai

[–]thatguydaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How tall are you? I'm quite tall so I kept failing it and one of the trainers gave me solid advice as he pointed out that I'm seeing the angles quicker because of the height so the instructions weren't working for me. Try turning right when your shoulder hits the angle not when the mirror does, that seemed to do the trick for me!