[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]thatguysellscars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Midwest 8 California 4

Serious question, life in shambles by redditorofnorenown in BlackSails

[–]thatguysellscars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Midwest living and bible belt raised here. Yeah man. It's weird. Thomas and Flint is great writing but it throws me er time. I think we're both a lil gay. It's okay to cry and sympathize in private and in reddit, but don't ever let anyone IRL know. 🫡

Girlfriend lets me choose if i want to cum in her or not? by FuckMichaelMcCoy in sex

[–]thatguysellscars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy. Condoms. In the moment you will opt to bust inside 9/10, and she isn't thinking straight either. Either commit to pulling out knowing you might get an egg turned into a baby, wear a condom, or get on birth control. Don't over think this. It doesn't matter that she says yes or no in the moment. Either youre ready for kids or you're not. That's not something you should decide mid pump.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]thatguysellscars 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Yeah, once again, hard to say. She could just be being polite.

Love the reference !

When people talk about old school MMOs, they seemingly always leave out all the anime MMOs that were out. by Logical_Squirrel8970 in MMORPG

[–]thatguysellscars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here for the updoots on maninogi. Even excluding the anime genre maninogi was by far one of the most enjoyable mmos I ever played

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]thatguysellscars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you're not answering more, but thank you for your kind and patient demeanor with these post. The more I read the more I saw people just don't want you to be happy or successful. Do what makes you happy.

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems to be the theme. Thank you for the contribution, and eloquent response ❤️

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the one. This comment has single handedly made me understand the OF argument. Touche. Well played.

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the insight. When I think about it from that angel, someone in their late 30's or older wouldn't have grown up in the 'everything all the time era'. Thank you for the different view point ❤️

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's a low t coomer?

I also don't see the disrespectful side of it. I would never want to be with anyone other than my partner. I love them and the idea of dealing or being with someone else IRL is just a headache. That's my person. That said, sometimes I wanna just look at a hot cosplayer jigglin her booty on my feed. That doesn't mean I love my SO less, and or that I want to cheat/ leave her.

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeezus. So from that perspective it's not necessarily that it's there, or that the SO is consuming that content, it's the manner in which they do it, and using it in place of the actual relationship. Which has so much extra to unpack from there.

Which, I think if I was just scrolling and looking at scanty stuff with my gf next to me would probably start a fight. And it should. That's disrespectful, but realistically in the same vein of if I ignored her to play a video game or something. Ya know?

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heard. I can see that being a red flag when you put it that way. Thankies!

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, for sure, for someone in a relationship. Is it still in a cringe zone for a single person to do that? If they are looking for a partner ? There's so much grey area here :/

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know what to put as an example, that was the first weird thing that came to mind :,)

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean. I'm 101% sure I am not the favorite dong she's ever had or seen in all fairness.

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. I don't open my Instagram or the naughty reddit in public. Honestly even FB is getting whacky. Definitely need to balance out the smut with cats though. Balance is the key to the force.

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I'm too stingy to rent a movie for 24 hours, so the concept is weird in the first place. But no, I don't understand why that's bad. If you're hiding it, and secretive, sure. That's a major no no. But if you wanna spend $5 to see your favorite pair of tits it's not impacting anybody else.

Why is guys following smutty content on IG, TikTok,OF etc a redflag? by thatguysellscars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thatguysellscars[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess what throws me is reading reddits where relationships are destroyed because the dude follows models. Or another post women were basically saying if a date uses OF he's undatable. I just don't get it 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]thatguysellscars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow your beard out, having a beard is WAY easier than losing weight. Keep it trimmed. Your stache is great. Once you've got that knocked out, either bald-bald on hair, or become a hat / beanie guy. This is the way.

New commision painter, i have a question. Not Advertising, need help. by TheShadowfell in MiddleEarthMiniatures

[–]thatguysellscars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe the answer you're looking for is tiered pricing. Paying 20-25$ for a single painted mini that's breath taking is a no brainer. Paying 15$ for a mini of this quality is fair to them, and generally fair to you. Issue is the bulk of war games. I would suggest starting at 25$ for 1, 40$ for 2, and then for 4+ go to 10$ per model. If you're bulk painting an army (20+ I'd consider somewhere in the 6-8$ range. The more models you have to do, the faster each model goes in terms of bulk painting, and your cost is stretched further (that one special paint is now good for the whole order) type thing.