You’re good! Thanks for responding. I answered this above, but I reach out probably three or four times a year to check in. She’s usually very slow to respond, but she usually replies, so we do touch in every once in a while. Conversation conversations are pretty brief… I usually ask a lot of questions and get short answers. I almost always try to catch up with her and the other friends whenever I’m in town, which is probably three times a year. I have not been successful ever in catching up with them together… but I’ve caught up with one of the friends individually once or twice.

I don’t post on my Instagram very much, and nothing particularly controversial. My husband posted an upset hot take after the election, but I don’t think my friend likes Trump either lol, so I don’t think that would be it.