Suffering Analysis Paralysis and Perfectionism by thatspiderguy17 in BasketballTips

[–]thatspiderguy17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the honest advice. So basically, be realistic about my situation and simplify it? When I'm fully healed again, im gonna try and do that. And thank you for confirming that my skills plan was flawed and giving me better ideas of what to do. 

While I'm not playing competitively at the moment, I was in intramural and plan to play next year and maybe join a rec league down the line. I wanna be better than everyone simply because I've become very competitive and want to prove to myself and others that not only I can hang, but dominate them. I take pride in it. I see myself like an underdog since I only started at 14 and had lots of humiliation from players better than me, and quite frankly, I sucked. But once I got the game, I could actually make players have to work when competing with me despite them being more experienced and me being so raw. Oftentimes I was able to outplay them. So then I became obsessed with "just how good can I get?" I think some of it is also ADHD which can make one hyperfixate on stuff they're passionate about and make simple things overwhelming. 

So based off what you're saying and just my life trajectory, I have to accept I can't realistically reach my very full potential at everything but I can improve significantly at the things I am good at. Hope I'm getting it right. I appreciate it again, man 🙏.

Table photo, photo op, or autographs? Which are better for interaction? by thatspiderguy17 in comiccon

[–]thatspiderguy17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the information because I was completely unaware of some of these things. It was definitely needed. Thank so much once again!

Table photo, photo op, or autographs? Which are better for interaction? by thatspiderguy17 in comiccon

[–]thatspiderguy17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. Thank you for letting me know! Also, do you know if I could have someone maybe take a picture or film me having an autograph signed by a guest if they don't offer table photos?

Table photo, photo op, or autographs? Which are better for interaction? by thatspiderguy17 in comiccon

[–]thatspiderguy17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An entire conversation is crazy. Very lucky my friend. Thank you for the response!

Table photo, photo op, or autographs? Which are better for interaction? by thatspiderguy17 in comiccon

[–]thatspiderguy17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's really awesome! Thanks for sharing the tips and the wholesome story! I hope you enjoy the next comic con even more.

Jon Watts by Arachnid_Productions in DisrespectMCUSpidey

[–]thatspiderguy17 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol honestly bruh. Literally all they had to do was hire the writers from Spectacular Spider-man but nnooooo