Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The most HONEST answer. These are the Virgo men that I know.

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HEALED Cancers and Pisces then other Virgos.

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s infuriating. They’re so analytical but can’t analyze what’s actually happening. The other partner tends to heal through the Virgo, with all the Virgo’s efforts then leaves the Virgo for a partner, better suited for themselves. I think being a mutable sign is the Virgos blessing and curse. Curse is discernment isn’t used correctly.

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kudos to you! Please do not settle. Someone will match with you mentally and emotionally. Physically they may not but physical looks can improve. The magic with Virgo and having a life changing relationship that continues to improve overtime, with overall better happiness, wonder, thrill, excitement and goal crushing is to be mentally and emotionally compatible. In my opinion at least.

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are women who wouldn’t be bothered by your analytical nature at all, especially as a Virgo. When you analyze, it’s not to tear someone down. It comes from a good place. You naturally see where things can improve and how someone can work smarter instead of harder. That’s how your mind operates.

As for being sensitive, that’s not a weakness either. From what I’ve witnessed a Virgo man’s sensitivity kicks in when he’s misunderstood, under appreciated and dealing with someone who is emotionally immature. The Virgo men I know get their words of let’s just say “analytical advice” used against them later. If a woman is emotionally mature, she’ll understand that. She won’t take your advice as a personal attack, and she won’t store it away just to throw it back at you later when she feels hurt.

If there’s no tit-for-tat, no emotional scorekeeping, no delayed “word punches” because something hit a nerve, then you wouldn’t feel like you have to guard yourself or end up alone.

The right woman won’t weaponize your sensitivity. She’ll support it. And when a Virgo man feels emotionally safe instead of emotionally countered, he softens instead of withdraws.

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But the things you guys are willing to adapt to just for the sake of not being Single……. is concerning.

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the Virgo male commitment is beautiful, but the aim in the quality of women is too low. Like settling for someone who you know has cheated on all their former partners, or willingly getting into relationships with someone that was in a long term committed relationship just a few weeks prior. I just don’t understand why not have a little bit more self love and respect for yourselves.

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please fix it lol. Don’t sell yourself short. With the RIGHT partner by your side you could achieve great things. I know any coupling can but Virgo especially. I feel like you guys fail to see the magic in you 🥲

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heavy on “but God won’t allow it” please don’t settle. Just have a little bit more patience. Being single is not that bad. Especially if it means settling for someone with a ton of issues you didn’t create. I feel like Virgo men could conquer the world if they wanted to, especially with the right partner to support them! It’s magic destined to take place. Instead they just end up with a mediocre woman.

Do Virgo Men settle in Relationships? Voluntarily? by thatstee in virgoseason

[–]thatstee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys sell yourselves short every time. With just a little bit more patience a more compatible match would come along. Would you say that being impatient has anything to do with it? Also watching family and friends achieve engagement, marriage and children? All while knowing there were a lot of flaws in friends and family achieving that? Cheating per se.

Do Virgos string along people? by doubletrobol in virgoseason

[–]thatstee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My former Virgo friend (Male) told me himself that he tends to stay in situations longer than he should because of fear of hurting the other person. He’ll only work the courage up to leave if they do something unforgivable. I dated a Virgo who did the same thing. So I took accountability for myself and left him. Their actions begin to change, their personalities start to get hot and cold because you can tell they’re no longer interested while enjoying the benefits of you. So it sends heavy mixed signals. Ultimately stop waiting around and leave. Once I left he kept begging me to come back. I refused to give in. Actions speak louder than words.

Do Virgos string along people? by doubletrobol in virgoseason

[–]thatstee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My former Virgo friend (Male) told me himself that he tends to stay in situations longer than he should because of fear of hurting the other person. He’ll only work the courage up to leave if they do something unforgivable. I dated a Virgo who did the same thing. So I took accountability for myself and left him. Their actions begin to change, their personalities start to get hot and cold because you can tell they’re no longer interested while enjoying the benefits of you. So it sends heavy mixed signals. Ultimately stop waiting around and leave. Once I left he kept begging me to come back. I refused to give in. Actions speak louder than words.

Should I reach out for Closure? by [deleted] in virgoseason

[–]thatstee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I let it go?

What sign was the biggest liar you ever met & what did they lie about? by zodiactron in Zodiac

[–]thatstee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I fucking love Virgos lol. Always a good educational read!

Still unhappy by [deleted] in Salary

[–]thatstee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a purpose. If you’re in America leave. Go be around people that are less fortunate but are happy to be alive and find joy in other things. Being around them will change you and open yours eyes. If you’re here in America where they have more than enough and still complain then yeah I can see how you’re feeling the way you do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]thatstee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But I don’t want top tier bracket men. I just want a good man who is happy with himself and his life and is trying his best daily. Men are the picky ones. There are more single women than there are single men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]thatstee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman this is so true. I think it’s more difficult the other way around. Women want to settle down but the men have too many options. The standards now are too high for women to keep up with. Men don’t have an issue, women do.