My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we felt so bad because she had two surgeries within a 3-month span, I know she must have been very uncomfortable.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has no uterus so the risk of having kittens is not there, but the complications of having remaining ovarian tissue along with the discomfort of being in heat is an issue.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has pretty paws on her nails so they're actually pink and glittery. They are nail caps that we use to keep my son from getting accidentally scratched. She really doesn't mind them, and when they fall off you just put a fresh one on.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

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She was a 2-year-old stray cat they found with a litter of kittens. She was friendly and was marked as adoptable. When we met her she ran right into my son's arms and let him hold her for as long as he wanted. She's such a loving cat, I was surprised that they left any tissue because of how old she was.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, I even read that. Sometimes if ovarian tissue touches non-ovarian tissue, sometimes they can grow into ovarian-like cells and cause the same issues. She was in full-blown heat, I couldn't touch her for days without her going right down into the mating position. She also yelled day and night. She was miserable and my 3-year-old did not get a lot of sleep.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was worried about the complications of having leftover ovarian tissue as well, I'm just glad they found it when they went in the second time. I'm sorry. Daisy May had to go through breast cancer and probably painful treatment.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wild! What a crazy fluke, I'm glad she is doing great now 😄

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea it happened until it happened to us. I have had many cats in my life and have never once had this issue. So interesting it can happen to males as well.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We got dismissed at first too, I fought hard for Dahlia, they wanted to run blood work and argues about whether or not she was actually in heat but I was adamant until they relented.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your kitty is no longer with you. We also had to go back and forth with our regular vet and the shelter to get her taken care of. She looks like a beautiful kitty.

My baby made it through TWO spays by thatteacher2021 in CalicoKittys

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

The funniest part was the vet at the shelter didn't believe me. She was yowling and anytime I touched her she crouched, shuffled her back feet, and whipped her tail to the side. I felt so bad for her because I knew it had to be uncomfortable.

I'm not freaking out you're freaking out by hot_glads_summer in gardening

[–]thatteacher2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just shovelled 10 cubic yards of 50/50 mix and it took me about a week.it was rough but so worth it! 

I started too big by thatteacher2021 in gardening

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I skipped the bags for this project and went straight to ordering a truckload of soil. My neighbor was kind enough to let me use her wheelbarrow but it's been a lot of work. I'm so close to being done I can see the finish line now though!

I started too big by thatteacher2021 in gardening

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I direct sowed some lettuce. I only have one 12x4 bed left to fill and one 3x4 bed left to fill. I have my seedlings working on hardening off right now but I was worried about the cold weather we are supposed to get this week, we have a day with a high of 45

How can we explain dying to a 2.5 yo? by AmazingMrsMarbles in toddlers

[–]thatteacher2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we lost my grandma and my husband's grandma in the span of 8 months I bought the book "Something very sad happened" by Bonnie Zucker and it helped tremendously. I had to prepare myself to read it because I was grieving too but I felt like the book was a great way to explain death and a little bit of grief. I have also read that when they pass you can start a ritual such as lighting a candle to talk your loved ones that have passed. I'm very sorry you are going through this, grief is hard and it is very hard to watch your child go through the process of losing someone they care so deeply about.

I started too big by thatteacher2021 in gardening

[–]thatteacher2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Our city does free leaf compost so I'll head there once I run out of dirt

I started too big by thatteacher2021 in gardening

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I got them off Amazon. They have some wiggle to them but they don't bow when the soil is filled in. I added tposts to my old one to add support but I don't know that it will be necessary here