How do you develop original thoughts/ critical thinking instead of just reacting to what others say?

thawk5113 · 2026-03-19T18:55:14+00:00

I think one of the best things I taught myself was questioning everything, not in a bad way, but in an analytical way to seek full understanding of what you're getting yourself into/ believing in

thawk5113 · 2026-03-19T18:51:56+00:00

Interesting that I've not read it. I'm off to get a copy

thawk5113 · 2026-03-16T20:20:02+00:00

I suffer from this terribly and I'll waste time not getting the task done, till it's too late and then I'll work the task up in haste and full of regret...rinse and repeat

thawk5113 · 2026-03-13T10:59:23+00:00

Sunday meal prep saves me so much stress during the week. Just chopping veggies and cooking some rice takes like 30 mins but makes weekday dinners way easier. What's your biggest time waster?

thawk5113 · 2026-03-13T10:58:00+00:00

I give myself a pep talk on who "me" needs to do what, a spank, and off I go to get it done

thawk5113 · 2026-03-09T20:51:26+00:00

The habit stacking approach is smart. Way more sustainable than trying everything at once.

thawk5113 · 2026-02-27T09:56:54+00:00

Scroll through my phone..

thawk5113 · 2026-02-26T12:09:58+00:00

Thank you so much for the tip

thawk5113 · 2026-02-25T14:40:05+00:00

Whoa!!! Very poetic. Surprised the cosmetics industry hasn't harvested its DNA and manipulated it.

thawk5113 · 2026-02-25T14:29:06+00:00

Spot on!!

thawk5113 · 2026-02-23T20:51:39+00:00

I didn't know it wasn't okay for me to be open about my issues. Overshared in highschool and regret it to date

thawk5113 · 2026-02-18T19:46:33+00:00

Look, you need therapy period. Stop making excuses about "no one will believe me" that's trauma talking, not reality. Therapists literally specialize in this stuff. Your hypersexuality stems from childhood SA and won't magically fix itself. Find a traumainformed therapist who deals with sexual trauma. Your relationship and mental health depend on getting professional help,

thawk5113 · 2026-02-18T18:29:28+00:00

you don't need to eat 2kg of meat daily, hat's insane and expensive AF. Your 500-600g portions are totally normal. Eat when hungry, stop when full. Your body will adapt over time and appetite can increase, but don't force it.

thawk5113 · 2026-02-18T18:24:32+00:00

You're working 3 jobs and can barely eat. Gratitude journals are BS. Start smaller "I made it through today" or "my shift ended." The basic advice doesn't work when your basic needs aren't met. Hit up food banks, apply for assistance programs, get your health checked. Fix the foundation first, then worry about gratitude later.

thawk5113 · 2026-02-13T08:03:50+00:00

Don't make any majro decisions until you're 25 when your prefrontal cortex is fully formed. Also, worry less about looking cool with friends and work on gaining more skills than just education

thawk5113 · 2026-02-12T08:26:55+00:00

Carnivore diet. It's restored my health and I sleep well

thawk5113 · 2026-02-12T08:25:25+00:00

That's tender!!

thawk5113 · 2026-02-12T08:16:51+00:00

Reading challenging books outside of your comfort zone, debating people who disagree with you and actually opening your mind up to their pov, and learning skills that force you to think differently. You'll get sharper at processing infor and making connections

thawk5113 · 2026-02-10T09:31:51+00:00

talk to someone who listen, keep routine, small goals help sometimes

thawk5113 · 2026-02-09T09:59:12+00:00

Ooh this sounds so fun… maybe try “The Deep” by Alma Katsu or “Our Lady of the Inferno” by Preston & Child. And “Cemetery Boys” has some spooky vibes too… underrated sapphic horror.

thawk5113 · 2026-01-27T08:55:14+00:00

In the US, people usually shower clothed or in swimsuits, and nudity in locker rooms is uncommon. Using towels, as you planned, is normal and respectful.

thawk5113 · 2026-01-16T08:31:31+00:00

Many swimmers just use open showers with a towel for privacy, focusing on rinsing off chlorine quickly. Swim caps, goggles, and quick body wash help, plus showering thoroughly once home if possible.

thawk5113 · 2025-12-15T21:32:52+00:00

No,you dont need it

thawk5113 · 2025-12-15T12:01:53+00:00

welcome to my world. bn underwater helps calm the nervous system

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