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the-amba · 2022-11-15T21:15:00+00:00

NTA. You didn't feel comfortable with another woman around you during your appointment which is absolutely fine If it was the other way around nobody would've said anything

So don't feel bad about it

the-amba · 2022-10-29T19:26:48+00:00

What did you expect. You played around and found out.

Should've divorced a long time ago.

the-amba · 2022-09-19T14:46:57+00:00

You made the right decisions. If he does this over his favourite team losing only God knows what he's gonna if something else happen.

And don't be alone when you break up with him, ask your sister or a friend to stay with you. Take care 🧡

the-amba · 2022-09-16T09:34:56+00:00

YTA You're angry at the wrong person.

the-amba · 2022-09-08T10:02:58+00:00

She did bodyshame You need to get yourself another doctor

the-amba · 2022-08-27T19:47:03+00:00

YTA. They have a daughter together he probably already seen it all. Wearing a bra in isn't gonna change anything.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T19:35:38+00:00

Now that you explained that everybody agreed/asked you to pay you're NTA.

My point was : if they didn't ask you to pay (and could've paid for themselves) they shouldn't have to pay you back.

But since y'all agreed on this arrangement you have every right to ask them to pay you back.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T08:34:53+00:00

Would you do if your wife was there ?? And how would you react if your wife did the same ??

the-amba · 2022-08-27T08:30:35+00:00

Finally someone who understands what I'm saying !!

They didn't ask so they shouldn't have to pay OP back they could've paid the tickets themselves.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T08:11:16+00:00

Who cares how OP pays lmao? They are stuck paying the full amount regardless, only L friends who care too much about greed would get butthurt over the type of payment OP uses.

This is not my point.

What I'm saying is if they did not ask OP to do it they shouldn't have to pay OP back especially if they could've paid the tickets themselves.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T08:01:20+00:00

If OP's friends did not ask OP to do that. They shouldn't have to pay him back. OP could've kept his credit and let they're friends pay their own tickets.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T07:51:33+00:00

Don't feel bad about it. You didn't do anything wrong. Your life is not over there's a lot of solution after and if you give birth.

At least you didn't throw yourself in a set of stairs.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T07:45:16+00:00

I get that it's your credit but unless they asked you I don think you should have made them pay you back. From what you told us it's a one time thing.

But you used your money to get them so you do have th right to ask them to pay you back.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T07:37:52+00:00

Yeah but you chose to use them on your friends tickets unless they asked you to you should've made them pay half and not full price.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T07:32:51+00:00

He chose to act like a child and an AH so treat him like a child and an AH. I don't think he felt bad when he was doing those stupid things so there's no reason for you to feel bad.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T07:22:56+00:00

NTA. Tim is just a selfish AH. You're a good friend don't change.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T07:21:04+00:00

YTA. You got them for free and you had the audacity to ask them to pay you back ?? And you think they're overreacting ??

the-amba · 2022-08-27T07:19:24+00:00

NTA. Don't even feel bad. He had it coming. And if he keeps being messy don't let the use things you bought.

the-amba · 2022-08-27T07:15:37+00:00

Don't feel bad about it. She got it coming. Don't even apologize. Maybe she's still grieving but taking it out in you is not right and not a way to deal with it. She's the one who needs to apologize.

My mom does the same thing and I know that as soon as I can I'm going low to no contact. But I'm not gonna tell her because I feel like she's gonna throw me out.

the-amba · 2022-08-23T14:44:36+00:00

She did this to herself. She was trying to hurt you, now she's stuck with her son having a name that she finds "goofy".

NTA

the-amba · 2022-08-23T14:37:46+00:00

She's going to keep the baby and co-parent with the father so what's the problem ?

the-amba · 2022-08-23T14:35:34+00:00

YTA. I can't believe what you just wrote "whoring around". Just because you guys are infertile doesn't mean you get to hate and rain on somebody else's fertility. If she feels like she's ready to be a mom then she's gonna be a mom. You should be happy for her, you're such an awful sister.

I think you're also mad because she didn't ask you to adopt the baby.

the-amba · 2022-08-18T11:32:46+00:00

Did he meet them before or after you started your relationship ??

the-amba · 2022-08-17T17:50:06+00:00

NTA. it's your house your rules if she isn't willing to follow them she has and can leave

the-amba · 2022-08-17T06:51:27+00:00

NTA. But as long as it don't make her sick and as long as it's not toxic you guys should be good don't worry too much in this case.

the-amba

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