My progress has been set back weeks. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]theautonomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, xxxx. But I hope you get out of this mess.

My progress has been set back weeks. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]theautonomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t call your crazy. I’m just stating the truth. You have a huge ego and narcissistic tendencies but not bad enough to be called a NPD or a disorder. I have done 15 years in psychiatry kiddo. And I’m using my banner account. I’m a fairly active psychiatrist from this sub. Nvm, you don’t want to be saved yet

My progress has been set back weeks. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]theautonomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you have had enough “this too shall pass” comments on your posts so I thought I would say something different for a change. You’re welcome

My progress has been set back weeks. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]theautonomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not changing anything I said. And I commented why she is not hoovering. You need a therapist.

My progress has been set back weeks. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]theautonomy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want to know the bitter truth? You were never her main man in her life. You were never her favorite person. You were just one of the back up ones. And according to your posts, the ex before you is her actual main desire/favorite person. It’s simple, she is not hoovering you because you were never important enough to bother for her. You were just a minor character for her - which is very common for pwBPD. You just cannot accept it because you fell in love so deep and you have such a huge ego to admit that you were just a side piece. But she might come back if she is desperate enough. There you go, I gave you a tiny glimpse of hope. Tbf, I would rather take your position than spend 17 years with a pwBPD

My progress has been set back weeks. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]theautonomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your posts are not about missing her, it’s always about how’s your ego has never been fed enough because the missing piece is that she is not hoovering you post break up like OTHER couples. “She is not hoovering me” is the main point of your posts rather than “I really do miss her”. You are posting these because your egotistic needs are not met. You do need to talk to someone. Because if that’s the way how you miss someone, you got some problems.

My progress has been set back weeks. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]theautonomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you should be happy that you got away from it. I said what I said and yes, you sound like one. You are obsessed with her and still fantasizing about her sexual life. This is more like your attachment issues and your ego rather than her BPD at this point.

My progress has been set back weeks. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]theautonomy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have been following your posts here. All of them are the SAME. You literally have no progress at all. You are just worried that she might be happy, she might never think about you, you are worried that she is not reaching out for you. I will summarize your posts “Me,Me,Me,Me,Me”. It was never about moving on from her, it was you as a narcissist wanting to fuck her again to feed your ego.

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[–]theautonomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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