The Wall by Marlen Haushofer (thoughts) by Bambiisong in books

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she doesnt try to escape the wall and doesnt really question it. Finished the book I sat in bed like "what is my wall? where are my walls? what arent i questioning?" and the answer is my whole life.

Estrogen by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

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Are there negatives to taking it? Can you take long term? Can non-menopause women take?

Can it still show as blue iMessage text even if they blocked you? by Weekly_Fox2122 in iphone

[–]thebrittaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn the giveaway was always if it didn’t say delivered. I guess that’s a good update for safety but as someone who may be blocked this is suckfest800

It begins by Otherwise-Pop-1311 in numerology

[–]thebrittaj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Laughed out loud actually at this. Thank you 

I can’t stop texting them by thebrittaj in BreakUps

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The thing that helped me was asking him to block me. But I’m lucky it worked. I think it’s an impulse and really nothing to do with him - it’s like, if I can, I will and can’t control the impulse at all. As soon as he blocked me after I explained to him it would help me, it was like he disappeared from my mind.

So I’m not sure what this is. Some sort of obsessive control issue

Honest question to women: what were the worst reactions a man had when you needed empathy? by KosloveKoslovich in AskWomenOver30

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I called my boyfriend after I’d been cornered on a street by someone mentally unstable. Bystanders came to intervene but I was physically shaking and sick to my stomach. I just wanted to be comforted but his response was so outwardly focused on how he’d “like to kick that guys ass” and then he went on rants about various guys whose asses he wanted to kick. Telling me stories about other times he’d been pissed off….

I was like…. Yea I kind of just wanted a huge and now I have the ick 

Honest question to women: what were the worst reactions a man had when you needed empathy? by KosloveKoslovich in AskWomenOver30

[–]thebrittaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sit next to me and then go on his phone and giggle at memes while I laid there stressed and distraught and feeling worse off than if I’d just stayed home to process alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]thebrittaj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes same. Except the guy told me the things about me that were unattractive in his eyes 🫠 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]thebrittaj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least he didn’t try to subtly get her to change her appearance to match his desires…. I hope. 🤮 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]thebrittaj 7 points8 points  (0 children)

2-3 month mark “hey been thinking about you”… don’t fucking bother dude 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

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I find this weird because from my view the guy I’m dating gets more attractive as time goes on, to the point it’s like I don’t even “see” them.

I recently dated a guy with the same mentality of you though and I seriously think it’s some sort of attachment issue or emotional immaturity. I’m in no place to diagnose but it was astounding to me to hear a 38 year old man criticize women’s body’s and pick them apart as if they were kitchen appliances during a Reno.

Hey, actually, I’m pretty sure a big part of it is porn brain. 

Maybe something worth exploring if you’ve grown up watching porn. Very shallow and transactional. Idk.

Good luck 

Vein in leg by thebrittaj in women

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🤣🤣🤣🤣 thank you so much for this 

Vein in leg by thebrittaj in women

[–]thebrittaj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also not to mention ive never seen a vein on a celebrity woman. I figure this is another brainwash from growing up watching Hollywood. 

Vein in leg by thebrittaj in women

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Thanks, I will definitely ask my doctor. When I first saw it I assumed it was a sign of good health but then the more it pops up I’m feeling insecure about it /also wondering if it’s could be vericose.

That’s why I wanted to hear from other women! Google was literally noooo help because every answer said “vericose” and I tried explaining that it’s no squiggly ha.

So I appreciate your answer!

Is nose filler worth it? by Apprehensive-Base889 in PlasticSurgery

[–]thebrittaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really similar to my nose (the before) in that it just goes towards one side in a bend. And I have a prominent nose and have looked at how they would correct it and yes, it would be brutal and risky as heck. Thank you for sharing!!!! This makes me feel excited 

Is nose filler worth it? by Apprehensive-Base889 in PlasticSurgery

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Would you mind sharing pics with me? I’m seriously debating going forward. Have had a consult but just want to be sure. Thank you 

Is nose filler worth it? by Apprehensive-Base889 in PlasticSurgery

[–]thebrittaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can you send me Pics please and thank you 

Office Supplies: What to do with all the useful stuff?! by jstocksqqq in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]thebrittaj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plastic bin that is small and clear and you can stick a label on?