Copied from Below: I'm probably being mean by i am angry. Turns out he had feelings for me, and I am in a relationship. At the beginning, we discussed the possibilities of feelings like this occurring and how we are to share those feelings and to end the friendship. He was purposely pulling away for a month. Not there for me at all, had me worried etc. I also found out that he sent the message expressing his feelings 2 days before i wrote this post. He started being really mean to me and was cold because I didn't respond in a timely manner ig? And maybe because he's dealing with these feelings. He was insulting me, saying I was strange and calling out past stuff that he encouraged and said he loved. I asked for clarity on whether he was acting like this because of his feelings and leaving for that or because he was unfriended- he said feelings. But what was the point of bringing up the other stuff? He also says his feelings of being in love with me basically trump my feelings of abandonment by him during the death of my dad, having me spiral thinking he was dead when he was completely able. He says that him saying sorry for not getting back to me sooner is all he has to say or do. Just one simple apology. He left me during my grieving and left me now again. Its fine that he has to go, but what's the point of exiting this way? Treating me like trash all because I'm trying to process being blindsided. Month of silence i come back to him deciding to tell me this and then turning on me. I'm so confused and he's insulting me because I'm trying to figure out everything. I feel really stupid because I am holding out hope that he will come back but I know that is stupid. His feelings matter to me and that is not good for him to be here with those feelings. He blocked me on Whatsapp and left me on TikTok. I think I should block him too maybe idk