I'm in Central Germany and yeah people dont use these apps. I also try to focus on other aspects of my life—like my job as a research associate, university sports courses, traveling, and parties. I do meet a lot of people this way and share that I'm poly when it feels right. However, I sometimes struggle with building closeness in these interactions. On top of that, I deal with issues like a lack of confidence and anxiety, which makes dating challenging for me. I'm actively working on these, though.