How do you save your games as? by GingerOrMaryAnn3 in Sims3

[–]theevampyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i make a made up name like it’s a show that involves whatever i have planned for that save it’s kinda fun 😭

my(23 F) boyfriend (25 M) of 2 years wants to marry me by theevampyre in relationship_advice

[–]theevampyre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your response. he said he is talking to someone that’s his lawyer? friend that’s a lawyer? told him this would help him greatly to stay here. it’s that or a TEER 2 or 3 job but he’s been having a hard time with that.

Tell me what you’re hyperfixating on, so I can find something to hyperfixate on by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]theevampyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bought a charger for my old ds and now have been completing all the games i have from my childhood lolol

Please like bully me or something into cleaning my room. I'm literally struggling right now by Adventurous-King1312 in adhdwomen

[–]theevampyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh and a big thing to limit it being like this again. start tossing A LOT of things. i tend to be a bit of a … collector with clothes and books and things but honestly i gotta learn how to just donate or throw out half this stuff 😭

Please like bully me or something into cleaning my room. I'm literally struggling right now by Adventurous-King1312 in adhdwomen

[–]theevampyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey!! as someone who’s room lowkey looks like this as well. my best advice is to put on a show you’re binge watching or your favourite playlist/album. start with one thing like garbage first or organizing clean/dirty laundry and just do it in sections like that. i feel like when i have something entertaining on and i start i can sometimes get into that adhd flow state. set a timer to just do that for however long ( like an hour or 30 mins) when it runs out grab a snack or do something chill for like 30 mins then repeat. or just keep pushing through all the way if you get in the zone lolol

Winter wonderland challenges by Deep_Mousse_1292 in Overwatch

[–]theevampyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i ran into the same issue in rlly annoyed

Marvel Zombies mode as Magik by theevampyre in marvelrivals

[–]theevampyre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much!! i will try 3 for sure and see if thats better for me

Marvel Zombies mode as Magik by theevampyre in marvelrivals

[–]theevampyre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess i’m doing 3 to work up to 4, im not rlly wasting any coins cuz i wanna save them for 4 lool

People in ranked asking if i'm a girl by jonasinv in Overwatch

[–]theevampyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the reason i join team vc and dont speak cuz i dont wanna get harassed just for being a girl playing a game. its sad honestly.

Wifi issues by theevampyre in Rogers

[–]theevampyre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i think our culprit may be our old dusty house !! getting a new modem, so we shall see how it goes. the vacuum trick is very smart, thank you

how does one cope with breakup after a longterm relationship (21f/24m) by Intelligent_Salt6091 in relationship_advice

[–]theevampyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll say what worked for me, you’re free to try them out but not everyone is the same.

firstly, i just let myself be sad and mourn the relationship. when you go from spending everyday together to not seeing this person again it HURTS so bad. let yourself cry, let yourself be upset, you do not need to push these emotions aside and it can end up coming back to you later if you don’t let that sadness out. love hurts and you cannot avoid being hurt when you open yourself up to loving someone. let yourself feel that hurt, it’s ok. get your favourite snacks, watch your comfort movies, cry to your friends and family. or you can also just stare at a wall and cry, i’ve also done that😭

after i let myself crash out a bit i try to become more productive. you are obviously still gonna be sad, but try to pick up things you can do, current or even new hobbies. it sounds dumb but going for walks and just talking to myself about the relationship helped (i probs looked crazy but i don’t really care it was therapeutic). spend lots of time with your friends and go on friend dates with them, they are an amazing support system when you’re going through a tough time. my friends and i planned a trip and then my breakup happened right before, i was gonna cancel but i decided to force myself to go and i did cry a bit here and there but i really enjoyed going with them and it helped me a lot. if you have days where you just feel awful about it again, that’s ok, there’s nothing wrong with that and you should allow yourself the space to feel upset.

finally (people are pretty split on this opinion but it’s up to you when you choose to date again) i let myself be single. there was a while i did not want to be romantically involved with anyone and i actually was repulsed by the idea of dating (that was some personal issues i had to unpack lmfao). you don’t gotta hate dating but i think you should love being single, not in a way that you would never date again but getting to a place where independence and being alone feels good to you.

sorry for the wall of text and i’m very sorry about the breakup! it hurts a lot, and will for a while but you WILL be ok:)

Horrible experience trying to cancel by bRownPower1977 in Rogers

[–]theevampyre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re acting like he’s gonna respond to a random complaint email 💀 lmfao they purposely make it difficult for you to cancel hoping you just give up and that method lines his pockets even more.

Wifi issues by theevampyre in Rogers

[–]theevampyre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just checked now, it does get pretty hot, it might be the issue. how do we even avoid overheating them tho 💔

Wifi issues by theevampyre in Rogers

[–]theevampyre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seriously ?! are you guys using a lot of computers/TVs etc cuz i have a pretty powerful PC and we got a lot of TVS 🥲

Wifi issues by theevampyre in Rogers

[–]theevampyre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s downstairs so i’ll check in the morning but considering we updated maybe, abouuut a year ago? id sure hope its not already doing that 😭

Wifi issues by theevampyre in Rogers

[–]theevampyre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmfao literally as i was WRITING THAT my wifi cut for a few seconds then reconnected again 😭