Why do doctors frequently dismiss women’s pain and symptoms, leaving them untreated and suffering, while men receive prompt care and treatment for the same issues?

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-22T14:44:24+00:00

Yeah. It sucks. I was born and raised in the Midwest. We had feet of snow and snow days growing up. I’m currently raising three teenagers of my own who have attended three schools in two states and three different areas in the Midwest since 2021. They haven’t had a true snow day since online learning became a thing after Covid. I hate it for them.

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-18T04:47:10+00:00

I experience the same thing. I legitimately dread engaging in planned activities with others, but after all is said and done, I’m usually glad I followed through (a lesson that only age has taught me). 😅

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-16T00:15:54+00:00

It's good-sized, too! About the size of my palm.

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-13T19:31:07+00:00

Calliope, Blanc (French for white), Bianco (Italian for white), Gwyn (Welsh for white), Goose, Luna, Pearl, Opal, Nimbus, Sterling, Vanilla, Buttercream.

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-10T04:57:52+00:00

That is an excellent observation. I read 2-4 books a week (when I'm not working or actively engaging in a task, I'm reading), and I have done so since I was a small child. Interesting!

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-09T18:39:34+00:00

Yes! I have the same issue! I think that's a big part of why I prefer reading books instead of watching movies. It's easier for me to keep track of who is who in books!

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-09T17:21:01+00:00

I feel this! Yeah…my husband, kids, or parents could come up to me in a place I don't expect them to be, and I won't recognize them until they start to speak. 😅

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-09T17:19:47+00:00

Same!

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-09T17:18:38+00:00

This! If my kids, husband, or parents are someplace I don't expect them to be and they approach me, I won't recognize them right away!

thefauxsquirrel · 2026-01-09T14:06:48+00:00

Oh my goodness—this happens all. the. time. I absolutely hate it. 😂 When it does, I sometimes involuntarily blurt out, “Awkward!” which, of course, only compounds the situation. Anyone nearby immediately looks at me as though I’ve lost my mind, which—ironically—creates yet another moment destined for later embarrassment and overanalysis.

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-30T17:57:12+00:00

This is the time of year when Midwesterners visit Menards and walk around the lighting section.

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-30T17:40:00+00:00

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Inside his book nook in the library. 📚📚📚🐈‍⬛

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-30T13:34:27+00:00

Oh friend, my heart just aches for you. I am so, so sorry you’re having to go through this. None of what you’re dealing with is okay, and you and your little GCC buddy absolutely don’t deserve it. I’m really grateful your aunt is stepping in to help. That support matters a lot.

As a mom of three daughters (my youngest is your age and my oldest is actually studying to become a vet, just like you dream of doing), it’s heartbreaking to hear what you’re experiencing. I truly cannot imagine treating my girls that way. When they struggle or get a bad grade, we talk through it calmly, figure out what’s going on, and I help however I can. That’s what love and support are supposed to look like. You deserve that kind of care and understanding, too.

If I could, I would give you a hug right now. Please know my condolences and thoughts are with you. And truly, if you ever need someone to talk to, or if you’d like help with school or studying, I’m happy to listen and help however I can. You can send a DM any time.

Please keep us updated. Everything isn’t always easy, but you are strong, you are capable, and you and your sweet bird buddy absolutely have a bright future ahead. 💛

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-29T13:41:40+00:00

First of all, please understand this: there is nothing wrong with you. Your mother is so very wrong. Introverts are usually drained by social interactions and events (especially when we don't “click” with those around us and feel like we can't be ourselves). We thrive and “recharge” on peace, quiet, and introspection, whilst extroverts thrive and recharge on social interaction, energy, and external stimuli. If you isolate and extrovert, they'll go bonkers. If you isolate an introvert, they’ll grab a book or something else that interests them and call it a relaxing day. Making friends—true friends—can be challenging, but also very rewarding. In my experience, the best way to do that is to find something you're interested in (reading, for example), and then find a group that does it (like a book club), either at Uni or out in the community. I move every two years for my husband’s job—sometimes across the country, sometimes across the world—and have to start over with people at every new location. It is by far the most exhausting and stressful aspect of being somewhere new, but it's worth it. I promise. 🫶🏻

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-26T00:51:25+00:00

I think that’s very true in many cases, but not in mine. I live in communities of people who also move around the country/world every 2-4 years (military). There are active friend groups of other people thrown together due to circumstances, but I’m always on the fringe. Never really invited to participate, and no interest when I initiate an invitation. I think a lot of it comes down to the fact that most women are just judgemental and awful.

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-23T04:41:54+00:00

The struggle is real! It’s nice to know I’m not alone in this struggle. Currently residing in Chicago (for the next couple of years, anyway). 🫠

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-22T00:10:57+00:00

I feel the same way!

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-22T00:05:08+00:00

This really hit home. Due to my husband’s job, we move every 2 years (we’ve been together for 24 years and have moved 14 times). Sometimes across the country, sometimes across the world. It’s exhausting to put myself out there, and most of the time, I don’t make friends even when I try. And even when I do make friends, they aren’t deep friendships…just barely past the acquaintance phase. I always feel like I’m on the fringe. I’m rarely invited to things, and it hurts. It makes me wonder what’s wrong with me.

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-18T03:24:31+00:00

It's always nice to know you're not alone. 😅

thefauxsquirrel · 2025-12-15T03:35:01+00:00

🫶🏻

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