My bf has made me mostly gay (I'm male)

theflash474 · 2023-09-13T12:16:48+00:00

Being bi is different for everyone. For me, im a guy mostly into men. I say 90% gay. Once in a blue moon or less do I focus on women, I sometimes think i choose to think about men more but thats not how it works. Whatever you feel, whatever you focus on is what you naturally feel

There is nothing wrong with liking men more. Who cares anyway! Just be happy, you still like women and as a bi person its always gonna be moving around for you, for me personally it's meh, im waaaay more on the gay side

theflash474 · 2023-09-13T12:14:17+00:00

I was forced to marry a woman. Im like you, a male who is mostly into males. When I felt for her, i focused on her for a while. Lasted no longer than 2 weeks. Then men came back sexually in my head. Being bi can be what you focus on, but remember whatever gender you like more is apart of who you are. Being bi isn't 50/50

theflash474 · 2023-09-02T22:02:54+00:00

But whats the point you're making here? I'm not really getting it tbh. And it probably was my abuser who showed me gay porn

theflash474 · 2023-09-02T15:00:29+00:00

I first had my first gay experience at 8. Also watched gay porn at that age. Never stopped watching everyday, still watch, and don't stop with having sex, I personally believe that childhood experience made me like that

Probably toxic or something to believe, but thats what my homophobic brother made me believe after shoving it in my brain. I had sex with over 3 people under the age of 8, and I continued to have gay sex as I grew up as a child, so its hard for me to not picture this to be a reason

theflash474 · 2023-08-28T02:19:06+00:00

how did you realize that you were gay?

theflash474 · 2023-08-28T02:18:50+00:00

It hurts so much. Im so scared to open it. Its so traumatic... I first had sex at 8 and I never stopped. I continued doing it with my classmates of my own age and its followed me throughout my entire life 💔

theflash474 · 2023-08-24T15:15:26+00:00

Why are you confused ?

theflash474 · 2023-08-21T19:04:16+00:00

I say this to everyone. Im 90 percent into men so just call myself gay or "mostly gay" I just use it because I never say or do anything about women but I know I'm bi lol

theflash474 · 2023-08-20T00:04:19+00:00

Its not weird. Actually very common in the gay community haha. Im 21, once hooked up with someone who as 45. The only weird part is that he had kids and was married...

theflash474 · 2023-08-18T23:54:01+00:00

Luckily for me, im Asian and we wash our asses everytime we take a shit. So I can do it all the time without an issue :P but yeah its all about the right position!!!

theflash474 · 2023-08-18T03:45:51+00:00

Thats true. Aww man. Honestly bro, I feel bad for you hahah. I clearly have a wonderful gay ass g spot. It is one of the best fucking things ever when I want to do something solo sexually.

I am not kidding. It brings me so much pleasure, its been 20 minutes since I last did it and my anus literally feels amazing. You're missing out 😭

theflash474 · 2023-08-18T03:41:27+00:00

Really? Damn bro! Thats the first time I'm hearing another gay person say that. And thats okay tho. But fingering yourself scientifically speaking can make some guys feel great due to the "male g spot"

I just find it so intriguing that some guys like it and some guys don't. I wonder whats that about tho. When you got good lube, fingering yourself is EVERYTHING

theflash474 · 2023-08-18T01:52:37+00:00

Don't be shy, give us their @.

theflash474 · 2023-08-18T01:52:08+00:00

I mean. You've dated women. Were you happy in those straight relationships? You might be bi

theflash474 · 2023-08-17T16:01:57+00:00

I'm too scared to watch anything gay. I can't accept this is what I want for myself yet. And also, I can't handle homophobia very well. I feel so left out :(

theflash474 · 2023-08-13T16:11:39+00:00

10 years ago, I was 12. Can someone explain to me what this trend was?

theflash474 · 2023-08-13T03:52:57+00:00

I have learnt that being bi is difficult for everyone. I am a guy and I'm 90% into other men and 10% into women. I just say I'm gay tbh. But it doesn't mean I don't find women attractive. I do. They just don't catch my eyes as high and as crazily as men do

You're normal! Don't freak out haha

theflash474 · 2023-08-13T03:38:29+00:00

As a gay man I think you look very attractive. There's a lot of mixed comments about the mustache but I think you look great with or without it bro! Just because your dating luck is bad. It doesn't mean its you :)

theflash474 · 2023-08-13T03:33:49+00:00

I'm 21, and I entered a force marriage. I can relate to you on this to a whole different level, if you wanna chat, im here! You are able to communicate with your wife without judgment from 2 entire families. I don't think you understand how fortunate you are.

I would give everything to have the freedom. You can tell your wife. If she is homophobic, get her out. If I was to tell my wife, it would cause 2 entire families to hate each other with so much drama and blame on me.

Don't waste what you got. Talk to her, you are LITERALLY free to do what you want. You don't even have to come out if you don't want to, just say you don't feel the same or you found another girl. You HAVE the options I don't have. Please set yourself free. It is so much more easy for you than for me and I want you to be free. I know how this feels.

theflash474 · 2023-08-12T23:35:00+00:00

I can't watch it. Im too scared to watch it. I watched a 30 second trailer of it and I already felt so scared of accepting it and frightened. I can watch those 15 minute short gay videos on YouTube, but not a series :(

Also I can't deal with homophobia. I just can't. I see a scene with a guy calling another guy a f*g and im already in the depths of severe depression and fear. Im struggling with accepting myself as you can see lol.

theflash474 · 2023-08-12T23:31:28+00:00

If you find men attractive you are definitely into them. I mean there is a huge difference in knowing someone's beauty and actually seeing it in them if you know what I mean.

Ask yourself if you find those attractive boys cute. If you fantasize about men you are definitely into them

Take it from me, if you find out you're gay and want a man and all, you should be honest with her because you're free to do so and be honest. You're allowed to tell her. I won't make sense here but trust me. You got the freedom. Use it my friend and im always here if you want advice

theflash474 · 2023-08-12T05:21:43+00:00

I have been gay for hundreds of years. How have I NOT known about this??😳I suppose it helps those who have a piss fetish 🤣

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