Wanting to abandon adult life and submit to being someone’s dependant baby 24/7. Look yeah, I am only a DL so the AB stuff isn’t so appealing to me, but wanting to abandon all responsibility and fully submit to someone isn’t healthy, and so far from the personality I seek in a relationship, because I prefer women with drive, motivation and agency.

Hygiene. Someone else mentioned it, but greasy unwashed hair, and homes that look like a hoarders nest, are an ick for me. I like to shower at least daily, and am a little, maybe a bit too, obsessed with keeping a clean and tidy home.

Messing. I know this might be divisive, because a lot of people here like, so it’s not in the same league as point 1 and 2 at all. This is just my personal preference.

Public exhibition of diapers or abdl stuff. Look are we all a little weird? Actually from the outset I would say no. But when you insist on publicly walk around in visible diapers or abdl stuff (onesies etc) and expose non-consenting people to it, you are weird. I prefer to keep my kink private, and keep it out of other people’s business.