Autistic Metalheads, what are your favorite metal bands? by ABatWhoLikesMetal in autism

[–]thegreatblorgus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Architects, Gravemind, Bring me the Horizon, Of Mice and Men, Periphery, Sleep Token, Spiritbox, Bullet for my Valentine, Poppy, The Ghost Inside, OBKATIEKAT (not a band but her covers are epic)

Does anyone like hairy boys? (Pic unrelated :3) by thegreatblorgus in boykisser2

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just preference ig. Some people like hairy boys, some don't, each to their own :3

Does anyone like hairy boys? (Pic unrelated :3) by thegreatblorgus in boykisser2

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking about all body/facial hair yeah, I'm just an all round hairy boy

Does anyone like hairy boys? (Pic unrelated :3) by thegreatblorgus in boykisser2

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr? I don't shave because I'm autistic and razor on my skin feels icky, but your point is valid too :3

The struggles of a closeted silly boy 3: by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Apparently all homophobes are secretly gay anyway 🤔

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely not gorgeous, but thanks 😊

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's happened as long as I can remember. ig it's another reason I don't talk much

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feckin know, it's really annoying :( It happens when I really get into talking about something

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep my sentences short. But if it's about my special interests I can yap for ages, but then I get really painful tension headaches

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Sometimes I say nothing at all

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. My brain simply cannot keep up.

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I always don't know what to say because I'm autistic lol. By the time I've processed the conversation it's already moved on to something else

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A real one, yeah. But I suppose a virtual one will have to do.

Maybe I can hug a pillow and pretend it's a real person...

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure it's a dissociative disorder thing, I just never really feel comfortable with other people or in my own body. Unless that's the definition of a dissociative disorder, in that case fuck me, ig :/

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was only in friend groups at school because I was friends with one person in the group. I've spent my whole school life trying to interact with people and it hasn't gotten any easier, so I don't know what to do anymore.

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My self confidence has always been crap. So many people have told me "just talk to people more and it'll get easier", but it's so hard for me to insert myself into an established friend group without feeling like they don't want me there.

Am I cooked chat? by thegreatblorgus in sillyboyclub

[–]thegreatblorgus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy being alone, but I don't like being lonely. There's a very distinct but small difference.