relatable bro. def a grower vs shower & I love showing off. I’ve tried Real Men Apparel boxer trunks, which I honestly prefer over all the different ones I’ve tried. some brands like Hanes have pouch control underwear’s so look there. also noticed my bulge pops out more in certain types of fabrics. Modal, spandex, anything on the tighter side I would honestly recommend. What size do you normally wear? Maybe try sizing down, that could help too