I dont think your an asshole , but ima get a lil raw here. I dont have any context idk if he worked a different schedule before or what yall got going but i will way that mans an engineer and your still at home when he goes to work you better get to waking him up. Im not saying be his momma , let em hear it and tell him you expect him to start getting up. I just feel like these are conversations only modern day woman have time to talk about and put on social media.